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21 and still confused about sexual orientation
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It's 2009. Who cares what side ya lean towards; don't worry about other's perceptions (if that was a secondary concern), any worthy humans do not judge others based on this trait.
And, just go with the flow. Where's the pressure to decide? It's your life, and however long it takes for you to decide your preference should not be put on any timetable.
And, just go with the flow. Where's the pressure to decide? It's your life, and however long it takes for you to decide your preference should not be put on any timetable.
With your complete disinterest in sex, perhaps you are asexual.
Oh no, I am very much interested. Just no butt sex please and thank you.
Oh no, I am very much interested. Just no butt sex please and thank you.
Then what's the point?
Oh no, I am very much interested. Just no butt sex please and thank you.
But you can't have 'sex' with a guy without having anal sex.
So basically, you like the look of a guys face, body, and his personality; more so than that of a woman, but you don't wanna have sex with him.
And with girls, you only like them sometimes - but not enough to do anything?
Maybe you're A-sexual or just not into sex, but you're bisexual, or gay.
Most confused people are, forgive me, split down the middle: either they're gay and don't want to admit it, or they're straight.. with the occasional bi chucked in for good measure.
Do you subscribe to the Bill Clinton definition of sex? He can still get head you know.
It's not penetrative sex though, you can't go through your life having head and saying "yes, I've had sex".
Oh no, I am very much interested. Just no butt sex please and thank you.
Pitching or catching?
OMG, you are still young don't rush yourself, have fun. If you feel as though you like someone just be yourself around them and everything will fall into place.
Well, I guess this flew over everybody's heads.
Mind my asking, but did this relationship end on a really bad note/break-up?
I wouldn't say that it ended on a bad note, but I didn't take it well. But I've been having attraction towards other guys since about 2004.. the summer after my freshmen year of high school.
Go have full-on sex with a guy. Then go have full-on sex with a girl.
kbai.
Okay! Any takers?!
I might be gay, but I'm no ho!
or am I?
PS - when you say no buttsecks, do you mean you don't wanna bottom or you don't wanna top or you don't wanna do it at all?
I don't think it really changed anything.
I might be gay, but I'm no ho!
or am I?
PS - when you say no buttsecks, do you mean you don't wanna bottom or you don't wanna top or you don't wanna do it at all?
Not at all.
Sexual orientation can be very confusing, and it can change. Go with the flow. Whatever blows your skirt up.
I think that I see more guys that I'm sexually attracted to than girls, but I don't think there is a difference in.. intensity of the attraction.. if you will
Maybe I'm just more picky about girls? Hmm..
So... you're sexually attracted to guys, just not interested in full-on sex with a guy...? How do you feel about sex with a girl?