21 and still confused about sexual orientation

[emt1]

So... you're sexually attracted to guys, just not interested in full-on sex with a guy...? How do you feel about sex with a girl?

I'd be into it. I've done it.

 

[Prof.]

If you've done it with both, which do you prefer?😕

 

[emt1]

If you've done it with both, which do you prefer?😕

I don't knowwww

Gah. I think I just need more experience with guys.

 

[Prof.]

You are Bi-sexual leaning Gay.

Congrats!😀

 

[emt1]

You are Bi-sexual leaning Gay.

Congrats!😀

Oh. Well. Okay then... um... thanks! I'm glad we got that settled. 🙂

 

[Prof.]

I've gone thru the same routine with some of my friends. I'm a pro at this sort of thing. 😛

 

[ecstasy]

I have friends who were bisexual.

Most of them, if not all, decided gay after a short while.

 

[GossipGirl]

Not without a strap-on, apparently.

So then lesbians aren't "having sex"?

To be more graphic, when lesbians have sex, usually when they climax, they're stimulating each other sex organs at the same time, whether it be with hands, or a strap on, or whatever.

They're having ''sex''.

Getting head does not constitute as having "sex".

sex |seks|
noun
1 (chiefly with reference to people) sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse

Having head is not intercourse.

The male anus has glands which are stimulated during arousal, leading to a "happy ending" - like the female equivalent, the vagina.

Putting your schlong in someones mouth is only stimulating one person, therefore, I don't think it could be classified as having sex.

Either way OP, if you love having sex with girls, yet don't love having sex with guys (you've ruled out anal) - haven't you pretty much answered your own question?

 

[Mord]

To be more graphic, when lesbians have sex, usually when they climax, they're stimulating each other sex organs at the same time, whether it be with hands, or a strap on, or whatever.

They're having ''sex''.

Getting head does not constitute as having "sex".

sex |seks|
noun
1 (chiefly with reference to people) sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse

Having head is not intercourse.

The male anus has glands which are stimulated during arousal, leading to a "happy ending" - like the female equivalent, the vagina.

Putting your schlong in someones mouth is only stimulating one person, therefore, I don't think it could be classified as having sex.

Either way OP, if you love having sex with girls, yet don't love having sex with guys (you've ruled out anal) - haven't you pretty much answered your own question?

That all doesn't preclude having sex without putting it up the pooper if you're a couple of guys.

to the op: try not to worry about it, i wasn't entirely sure about myself until I experimented a good deal and found out that my orientation was primarily none of the above and focused on D/S instead, I didn't have any particular sexual drive up to that point and now I'm a full blown nymphomaniac ^_^.

That all happened when I was 18-20 gradually over a couple of years and I'm still discovering things about myself and I still expect to for many years to come.

Try and ignore broad generalisations and definitions of what is and isn't sex as when it comes down to it, the only thing that matters is whether you/your partners feel fulfilled or not and as plenty of people have said tons of gay men do not like the idea of anal sex.

That said it doesn't have to be dirty, enemas can come in handy in that regard and are an enjoyable experience in on themselves imo 😉

Whatever you do try not to give a toss what others think of you, your sex life is *your* sex life not anyone else's.