Are you serious? It's not about being selfish - that's a red herring and not an argument at all. That feels very childish.
It's about taking responsibility in your life and the actions you take, rather than blaming others. If Ford, Apple, Epson, Sony, and Campbell's Soup don't offer products I want, I'll simply go elsewhere rather than whine or blame others.
"your response is basically you do NOT want the same camera in the smaller and bigger model because YOU want the better camera in the phablet size phone and don't really care about smaller iOS phone fans."
That's the silliest thing I've heard in awhile, as well as being untrue. I don't care what Apple does regarding their camera strategy, which models they put a better camera in etc. It's not a matter of me wanting Apple to do something that does or doesn't affect me. If Apple doesn't offer what I want, i.e. in this case a good camera, I'll simply go elsewhere. That's called taking responsibility for your choices. Give it a try sometime. You'll feel liberated. And you'll earn respect from others.
"But then you argue that point by telling the the fans of smaller iOS devices that criticise the camera differential to go and buy another brand then,..."
No, I'm telling people to vote with their wallet. If Apple or Samsung doesn't make what you want, go elsewhere. Simple.
"... because you want your better camera in a phablet, which is surprising being a photographer I would have thought cell phone camera are the last on your list instead of the first as they seem to be."
Why is that surprising? Are you a photographer? If you were you might understand why a good camera in a large phone is appealing, and as you put it, first on my list.
Here's a hint: Being a photographer and making compelling photographs that stir a viewer's imagination releasing narrative evoking an emotional response, has very little to do with gear.
