…felt like i was scammed by Tim Apple getting the Airpods Max
This is disappointing, but I think "scammed" is taking it a bit far. I bought a pair too, and they do everything they said they'd do when I bought them. They sound great, the noise cancellation is incredible, they're built like a tank and they've got a ton of Apple-specific features that make them seamless to use with my devices.
That said, I do think it's disappointing that a pair of Apple's new(ish) flagship headphones don't support audio in a format released only 6 months later. I'm under no illusions Bluetooth can carry that kind of bandwidth, but it sucks they couldn't figure out how to do it via a wired connection.