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Am I Gay?
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dude, you're not in any phase, you're gay. there's nothing wrong there, just learn to accept it, and the sooner you do, the better it will be for you and your family. and speaking of family, you'll need their support.
straight porn turns you on because there's a guy there w/ his thing going at it; maybe you should try watching 2 ladies doing it; it if makes you puke, then you're obviously gay, if it turns you on (like it does most guys) then you have a chance of being straight or bisexual
straight porn turns you on because there's a guy there w/ his thing going at it; maybe you should try watching 2 ladies doing it; it if makes you puke, then you're obviously gay, if it turns you on (like it does most guys) then you have a chance of being straight or bisexual
I'm straight but lesbian porn does not turn me on. It's just so boring. 
Now two girls and one guy? Now we're talking.
Now two girls and one guy? Now we're talking.
I have many gay freinds.
And they're not youngsters either (they know and have accepted that they're gay decades ago)
They often tell me they don't like watching gay porn, but far prefer hetero porn.
But put real life naked lady in front of them, and they get all flustered.
go figure.
And they're not youngsters either (they know and have accepted that they're gay decades ago)
They often tell me they don't like watching gay porn, but far prefer hetero porn.
But put real life naked lady in front of them, and they get all flustered.
go figure.
Okay, so yeah, I'm a 13 year-old girl, but I've seen porn before (although I don't regularly seek it out) and even though I could at this point never imagine myself to be with a female emotionally and romantically, I could see how people could be attracted to the females in it....
Anyways, don't worry about labeling yourself. It's hormones, it's confusion, it's crazy.
And don't have careless sex that you're going to regret, and if you have sex please use protection. That's the one thing that everyone teenager needs to remember.
EDIT: And personally, I think that you sound gay, but just live life and don't worry about labeling yourself at this point.
Anyways, don't worry about labeling yourself. It's hormones, it's confusion, it's crazy.
And don't have careless sex that you're going to regret, and if you have sex please use protection. That's the one thing that everyone teenager needs to remember.
EDIT: And personally, I think that you sound gay, but just live life and don't worry about labeling yourself at this point.
Are you gay? See below for answer...
I have loaded all the above parameters into a special program I wrote in terminal. After 3 hours processing, I need to ask a further question. Have you ever had relations with an xqj-37 nuclear powered pan-sexual roto-plooker?
If the answer is no, there is an 87% probability you are indeed as gay as a pope.
HckySo said:
I have loaded all the above parameters into a special program I wrote in terminal. After 3 hours processing, I need to ask a further question. Have you ever had relations with an xqj-37 nuclear powered pan-sexual roto-plooker?
If the answer is no, there is an 87% probability you are indeed as gay as a pope.
Kid, you really shouldn't be admitting that here. You never know what type you'll attract with a comment like that. Well... I think you know what type.amateurmacfreak said:
On topic (kinda), I'd be gay if it wasn't for all the sex with dudes. And the persecution. Otherwise, you don't know how lucky you are HckySo. Men are easy, women are complicated. But for some reason, we still can't get enough of them.
HckySo said:
Seriously just stop looking at porn, be a little more your age and don't worry about it. If you're gay, you are and it will feel right. If you're bi or straight it doesn't really matter in today's world. Just wait for yourself to settle down, don't get caught up with stimulating yourself. Sounds like you've got too much hormone at the moment, or maybe you need balance to all your straight porn viewing and attraction (which I presume was allot to begin with).
Haha, all girls my age have at least seen it.solvs said:Kid, you really shouldn't be admitting that here. You never know what type you'll attract with a comment like that. Well... I think you know what type.
I'm not like that....
EDIT: And as I said.... I don't seek it out.
Dude. It's ok. I'm 14 too and I was a little confused like 20% on way, 80% the other(straight) I really just think it's everyone around you. I'm not gunna try and think for you but maybe it was just u learning about gay people that made you worried that you are. That's what happened to me. But I now no that I am straight, and I didn't know what I was thinking. Good luck. There's nothing wrong with being gay, it's the plp that oppose it who are wrong. But if you do like other men, don't hing it all your life and make bad decisions.
My advise - don't look at porn. It's mind rot. I'm not attracted to porn (straight or gay). That doesn't make me gay or bisexual.
Like others have said, you're only 14. I'm 16. Been there, done that. Just settle down. Your horomones are bouncing off the walls. This could very well be just a phase. Don't sweat it.
Like others have said, you're only 14. I'm 16. Been there, done that. Just settle down. Your horomones are bouncing off the walls. This could very well be just a phase. Don't sweat it.
I'm of the "if you have to ask" camp...you prolly are. That comes from having gone through the exact same feelings.
The best way to look at this is, in my opinion, is to ask yourself, if no one gave a crap if you were gay or straight, and you didn't feel like you had some pre-disposed role to fulfill as a breeder, which would you choose...
As far as your questions regarding back door sex, I've never been keen on it, probably never will. You don't have to like that kind of sex to get a gay club membership card.
Good luck.
The best way to look at this is, in my opinion, is to ask yourself, if no one gave a crap if you were gay or straight, and you didn't feel like you had some pre-disposed role to fulfill as a breeder, which would you choose...
As far as your questions regarding back door sex, I've never been keen on it, probably never will. You don't have to like that kind of sex to get a gay club membership card.
Good luck.
I have to agree with iGary and the rest of that 'camp,' if you have to question... more than likely there is something there.
I wish I had something thoughtful to say other than, like everyone else, calm down... you're only 14! As soon as I understood the concept of one guy liking other guys... everything from years past started making more sense for me.
I wish I had something thoughtful to say other than, like everyone else, calm down... you're only 14! As soon as I understood the concept of one guy liking other guys... everything from years past started making more sense for me.
You sound like you're gay. Welcome . Count yourself lucky, you won't have to buy a girlfriend dinners and little gifts!
But, yeah, at 14 you have plenty of time to be non-sexual. Don't over-masturbate.
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. Count yourself lucky, you won't have to buy a girlfriend dinners and little gifts!But, yeah, at 14 you have plenty of time to be non-sexual. Don't over-masturbate.
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nived said:
Maybe I'm the exception that proves the rule but I have asked that same question of myself but came to the conclusion that I was straight. 14 years old is a difficult time with hormones raging and trying to make sense of the feelings you have. I'm not saying you are or are not gay. It will work itself out in the end. Enjoy your life and don't worry about it right now. Develop healthy relationships with people of both genders and soon enough you'll get your definitive answer. And one that you wll be comfortable with and own. Don't put yourself in a box right now with a label attached. You may regret it later.
asphalt-proof said:
14 is a very difficult time to define yourself when everything is inconsistant from one day to the next... I realize I'm not the most insightful on this, my realization that I was gay way more or less instantaneous once I understood what homosexuality actually was.
I hate boxes, especially the ones with labels, sometimes with packing tape too.
asphalt-proof is right on: don't worry about it; in time it'll work itself out with a definitive conclusion.
Just go slow with everything. Don't be in a hurry.
Ugh- I know what you're going through. No fun, is it? All I can say is things will be more clear over time. Take it easy and try to enjoy being young.
Ugh- I know what you're going through. No fun, is it? All I can say is things will be more clear over time. Take it easy and try to enjoy being young.
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