Anger Management issues and me..social problems

[Rodimus Prime]

People can actually go to a doctor/therapist (or many) and still resist the actual treatment because they don't like it. College students get suspended from my university every month for angry outbursts, psychotic episodes and extreme depression. Most of the time it is because the student willingly decided to not take their prescribed medication and/or attend therapy sessions. This is resisting treatment. I honestly don't know if the OP is trying to fool himself in the same way or not -- but I thought I would suggest it for his own consideration.

Something about ASD is those people lack a lot of the mental controls and emotional controls the rest of have. But more importantly they do not have the ablilty to read social cues like sarcasm. Or read people faces and emotions.
On top of that lets look at a normal person. On a normal person when some one close (best friend) says something hurtful it cuts deep because emotional walls to protect ones heart is not in place to stop it. I know it is that way for me. Now take some one with ASD who lacks the ability to understand sarcasm or have the same emotional control it strikes really deep and sets them off.

Best way is to try to have a way to dump that frustrations My way when I feel my emotional losing control is I pull away from the world and hide playing my 360.

 

[NightGeometry]

This might sound a bit weird, but it seems kind of positive.

OP doesn't lose it when around people he is less relaxed with, when with his friend he did lose it. I'd assume (and I am no expert), that this indicates a level of trust and comfort with his best friend.

Maybe explaining it that way with his best friend, and asking the best friend if he is comfortable with that level of responsibility would help the friendship? If said best friend accepts that trust and responsibility, then best friend is likely to reciprocate.

Losing it is sometimes good, like a thunder storm after a week of hot humid weather. Not all good things are pleasant, or nice. If you can channel that energy somewhere else, cool, if not, then at least let your best friend know that, and help him understand, that he may be more likely to see thunderstorms due to the level of friendship.

Or somethin'.

 

[dontwalkhand]

Well what's done is done, it is not like complaining will bring me the broken window, or repair the holes in the wall, etc.

I do need help, and I am going to go back to my doctor and explain to him about the meltdown that happened, etc. I know I can't control what other's say, and like I said, I usually just let it pass when its coming from "the general public." The meltdown happened, because the words have come from my best friend.