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Your girlfriend is crazy. Get away, fast.

IN FACT. How do you even know she's your girlfriend? Maybe she made herself up...:rolleyes:

WTF lol that was funny!

Hey OP, seriously dude I'm confused by your whole story. I guess you're pissed that your g/f is a lying whore who is ***** with someone else for the sake of being mean. I take it you don't think she's cheating on you and if that were the case then you're a chump and you need to leave her before you're image of women are tainted all around.

Really now, it's clear she's doing something and probably doesn't think it is going to result in her losing her boyfriend over it, but you clearly have some integrity and it seems as though you're upset that your girl could do this. I wouldn't want to be with a man who could be so thoughtless and crude, but that's just me.

That said, it's probably best to talk to her, take your computer away, and kick her to the curb. Once a mean spiteful bitch always a mean spiteful bitch right? She could do some serious damage to someone and it seems as though her little joke has gone too far.
 
I could swear this one

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is Julian McMahon from "Nip/Tuck". I'd recognize those abs anywhere!

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That's not Julian... some other chump.

But seriously, confront both her and the other girl with the evidence. Kill two birds with one stone...
 
Well, i confronted her about it today and she's in shock and saying that she feels sick and everything. She says its because its a lot to take, I dont know if its that or because I figured it out. Its tough to tell right now. But I told her she has til tomorrow to tell her friends, or I'm going to, so we'll see what happens. She didn't admit to anything and is still claiming they are real people, but she does acknowledge the fake pictures.
 
There is far too much deception circulating. End all of this the best way you can think of.
 
Well, i confronted her about it today and she's in shock and saying that she feels sick and everything. She says its because its a lot to take, I dont know if its that or because I figured it out. Its tough to tell right now. But I told her she has til tomorrow to tell her friends, or I'm going to, so we'll see what happens. She didn't admit to anything and is still claiming they are real people, but she does acknowledge the fake pictures.

Interesting. How did it go down? Did you hit her with all the knowledge? (figuratively speaking of course... )
 
Nope, not all of it. Just about the pictures mainly, which is really all that I have and can prove. She asked me to forward her everything just so she could see everything that I have noticed, and I told her I wouldn't do that because of what happened when I brought up the myspace and facebook accounts for the same person being different. By the time I get home, 10 minutes, the myspace was deleted. I said I'm not going to lose anymore info like that again, and so I won't do it. I just sent her the names that I google'd and found the pictures that were used to claim they were these other people... Gaspard Ulliel, Alex Gonzalez, and Todd Adkins.

I also told her that I want to be there when she tells her friends what is going on just so they can all see what I have found, and the presentation will be from me, and not someone who may to try and skew the evidence in anyway.
 
Dude, no offense, but is this really all worth it? It's like you are in an abusive relationship and just are hanging on for some weird reason. Are you even considering ending this relationship?? There's something really wrong with this girl.
 
To the OP:

(1) Take back everything you said. Tell her you think you were wrong and you know she could never do such a thing. Tell her you love her.

(2) Get your mac back.

(3) Dump her @ss on the curb immediately thereafter.


(Seriously, not only is her act stupid/immature/extremely mean, but she isn't being honest with you. You can't have a real relationship without honesty. You sound like a nice guy, and you will have to make this decision for yourself, but pending a heartfelt apology and acceptance of responsibility, you are better off without her. And her deleting the myspace account immediately after your talk makes it even more obvious you found the culprit. What... a... ho.)

-Ado
 
WTF lol that was funny!

Hey OP, seriously dude I'm confused by your whole story. I guess you're pissed that your g/f is a lying whore who is ***** with someone else for the sake of being mean. I take it you don't think she's cheating on you and if that were the case then you're a chump and you need to leave her before you're image of women are tainted all around.

Really now, it's clear she's doing something and probably doesn't think it is going to result in her losing her boyfriend over it, but you clearly have some integrity and it seems as though you're upset that your girl could do this. I wouldn't want to be with a man who could be so thoughtless and crude, but that's just me.

That said, it's probably best to talk to her, take your computer away, and kick her to the curb. Once a mean spiteful bitch always a mean spiteful bitch right? She could do some serious damage to someone and it seems as though her little joke has gone too far.


Marry me?

xoxo,

Ado
 
Privacy, anyone?

:rolleyes: Oh, please. The original poster set the privacy threshold where it is already. I can ask for the rest of the story if I want to, and he can answer or not if he wants to. YOU'RE obviously enough of a voyeur to read this thread, so don't act all moralistic.

Allison looks up suddenly.

ALLISON
You wanna see what's in my bag?

BRIAN & ANDREW
No!

Allison looks hurt and then resentful. Just to spite
them, she dumps the contents of her bag onto the couch.

Lots of stuff comes out.

ANDREW
Holy ****! What is all that stuff?


[.....]


ALLISON
You have problems...


[.....]


ANDREW
Okay, fine...but I didn't dump my
purse out on the couch and invite
people into my problems...Did I?
 

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Any updates? Has the con been admitted, or has the marine turned out to be real and turned up to kick some whoathere butt? The public demands to know!
 
Nope, no marine yet and the 'con' is vehemently denying any involvement. I dropped all the knowledge on her a little bit ago via an email just because I'm getting fed up with it. I love adium and how it saves transcripts because now I have proof of her and this "brad" guys screen name, signing on and off within seconds of each other and becoming active at the SAME exact time on about 20 different occasions. We shall we what happens though. This "marine" couldn't whoop any whoathere butt anyway... well, 'he' probably could if 'he' is real, but I never lose... I have a large entourage.
 
This "marine" couldn't whoop any whoathere butt anyway... well, 'he' probably could if 'he' is real, but I never lose... I have a large entourage.

lol nice. :)

Seriously though, keep us updated - I'd be fascinated to know why someone would go to these lengths to construct something like this (assuming it is made up, of course!).
 
lol nice. :)

Seriously though, keep us updated - I'd be fascinated to know why someone would go to these lengths to construct something like this (assuming it is made up, of course!).

Precisely why I have an obsession with figuring it out. It's like extreme Carmen Sandiego or something. I dont know what hurts more, the not figuring out everything, or the possibility of losing the GF...
 
what has this world come to? :eek: personally, i'd just present the facts to her roomies (use anonymous email if i had to) and dump the gf. i can't be with anyone that heartless... i give you props for confronting her up front.

p.s. your gf has probably read the whole thread by now.
 
OK, (sarcasm) time for a not so quick update for all of those still on the edge of your seats (/sarcasm).

So, a couple weeks ago, my girlfriends sister was killed in a bad car accident. The day she got the news, she began pushing me away big time. All that week she didn't want me to be around, and didn't hardly even speak to me after the visitation and funeral. I had enough. New Years Eve came and she decided to hang out with her friends instead of me... she actually told me she would let me know what her plans were, this to her meant, IMing me at 10:30 from her phone when she was at a friends, instead of texting or calling. I was pissed.

She also asked for some space in an email she had sent me shortly after I left her house after he funeral. Whatever, I don't do space, so I just did whatever and didn't talk to her. In the next few days she started taking pictures of me and her down from her facebook and myspace and what not, so I told her that if she wants to break up, she needs to do it and stop taking these little stabs at me. So she send me an email saying she wants to break up. Cool.

What do I do? I go straight to her best friends with all of the info I have on the whole fake people. Turns out they had started figuring it out just a few days before. So we confront her about it and she comes up with some BS story about how she met two guys in a bar and they found her on myspace and that they told her stories of their family and she really wanted to be a part of their family, so she started believing she was a part of their family. She admitted to lying about how she really knew them, when she didn't, she lied about having a god daughter that died last year and that she went to Texas to be with them, and all this other stuff.

So, me being the detective I am, I went to her house and got on her computer (its hers now, her parents paid me 750 for it, 2.0 CD MB with 1gb RAM and superdive, refurb, I did well) anyway, everything was deleted, i mean stuff that I had already seen, like pictures and all this stuff... all of her history was gone, BUT... in safari under the edit menu you can "undo history delete". WHOOPS. So, I undo as many as it lets me and lo and behold she accessed the emails of both of htese "guys" on the morning that the emails were sent to the girls about the lies and what not. Also, she accessed a Facebook account called "Youandme Thomas". I read that aloud and said "Who is Youandme Thomas?" One of her friends said "That was a facebook that I made for Brad and I that NOBODY else knew about". Not even the roomate/best friend new about it. BUSTED.

So I told her last night that she just needed to come clean because there is obviously something mentally wrong with her. I told her how there was no reason to save face and that they hated her already so she had nothing to lose, and everything to gain by just being honest. So she told me that she was going to write everything out and just get it all off her chest and come clean about everything... what do you think she does? Lies AGAIN to the room mate... tells her that there was "so much more details that need to be said" and then goes on to talk about these details... and she didn't say a freakin thing, just kept saying stuff that she had already said in her little story. So, now I'm pissed because she wont be honest, she works at a church, of which I'm going to be sure she gets fired, because this is ridiculous, and at the end of the convo she asked if I wanted a brownie, I accepted even thought I thought she was going to kill me.

Psycho women, I always seem to find 'em
 
WOW. OP - Why put up with all of this? Do you like the allure of it all or just plain torment?

I followed this saga from the beginning and was fairly intrigued; now I am just laughing. Call it quits bro, call it quits...
 
oh yea... i'm totally done with her.. thats not in question at all. It's like some lifetime movie or something... now I gotta find something to do with all my time
 
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