I have not ridiculed anyone in my posts. If you turned out great, congratulations.
The sad fact is that since the sixties drug use, underage sex, teenage pregnancy, civil disrespect, criminal disobedience, and on and on have risen.
Parents fell for the Doctor Spocks of the world and forgot how to raise kids, now those kids have grown and had their own kids who believe that the way they were brought up was how it was done throughout all time.
It is just not so, this laissez-faire method of raising children is relatively recent.
Wow, I am keeping these off post replies coming and I apologize. I should never have said anything and will definitely go back on topic.