If you think your kids won't toss you into a nursing home to die alone faster than they tossed that new shiny toy when it broke then I have new for you that you may not like.
This! There is always so little discussion about this topic on these sorts of articles because there isn't a huge difference in US and European attitudes towards grandma and grandpa - you toss 'em in the cheapest home you can find when they get to be too much of a problem. If you want to experience actual social stigma, little to no societal or employer support, and lack of understanding, try to be a caretaker of an ill or elderly parent. Pretty much the entire system severely penalizes that sort of activity, from medicaid programs that actively penalize caretaker relatives to employers that generally offer zero benefits whatsoever - you are expected and incentivized to toss them in a home and forget about them just as quick as you possibly can.