Oof.
“Team player” and “long-term thinker” are terms fit for a boss/company, but don’t align with, nor are ever used in favor of, the employee’s needs. What is the company’s requirement to be a team player in the employees life? If an employee needs money due to issues with personal finances, say an unexpected medical bill or expense, is the expectation for the company to supply it on request? No. But why not? They have it, how are they being a team player? If an employee is fired, how will they pay their bills or have access to healthcare? Where’s the long-term thinking in their life?
You acknowledge in your language that the relationship is one of the employee being at the whim the company, and if they don’t like it, they can leave. You frame this as an exercise of free will on the employee’s part, obviously if they objected they would leave, but in a market where every company treats their employees like this, there are no options. Just different versions of this relationship, at different pay rates, working for different companies interests.
Companies and bosses are there to extract labor for profit and employees have to enforce boundaries, demand better conditions, and stand up for themselves in the increasingly limited spaces where that’s possible. No company or team is any different.
But you’re right, if I were a boss, I might think like a boss. But I’m not and I have no desire to ever be one.
Signed,
Someone who isn’t a “long-term thinker” or “team player” and yet has been a valued employee in the 4 jobs I’ve worked for the past 16 years