RE: ihattwick
Why didn't you just ask her to remove it? I'm sure she had no idea it was distracting, and probably forgot she had it on. I have a rule for myself- you're not allowed to be annoyed at someone's inconsiderateness until you ask them to stop. If you bring it to their attention, any reasonable person will stop being inconsiderate- and if they still are obnoxious, then you have an even better story!
I read a blog not long ago about a guitarist whose entire performance was ruined by two inconsiderate people talking really loud right in front of them. The entire audience and guitarist were glaring at the talking people for the first half of the set- then as soon as someone says something to them they immediately stop and look embarressed. They just weren't aware of being inconsiderate- and we've all done that sometime or other.
fair enough. i do agree with you.
however, in this instance the woman in question showed up after the
film had already started. and as i said she was several rows ahead of
me. and it was a crowded theater. so asking her to remove it would've
involved interrupting the movie, stepping over a half dozen people to get
out of my row, and then stepping over another half dozen people to reach
the woman on her own row, talking to her, and then returning. that
just wouldn't do. and it all just would've been so much easier if the woman
could simply TAKE THE PHONE OUT OF HER EAR FOR 90 MINUTES WHILE
SHE WATCHES A MOVIE. or at the very least, put some tape on that
damn light if she can't live without it.
i agree that we must take responsibility for some of the things that
bother us and step up to the plate. but that still doesn't excuse people
who are simply oblivious. is the woman mean or cruel? not really...
she probably didn't know. is she a self absorbed moron that's a little too
fascinated with her own toys? absolutely.