Right. But the problem is, you're assuming that they know what the truth really is, and are intentionally trying to hide it from you. It sounds like they just really didn't know (probably assumed that it went out with the white iMacs).
Personally, I find it more annoying when people take a situation and try to turn it in to something it's obviously not. They have zero reason to try and deceive you, and since you apparently already know whether the remotes were included in the last generation or not, I really don't see the point of all of this...
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And if you (or anyone else) is really curious, looking at the refurb section, there's a last gen iMac available right now (at a decent price) and yes, it includes a remote. So for those of you interested in arguing particulars, yes - they came with the remote. For those of you who are interested in purchasing one, and really wanted to know if they were included - yes, they do. For those of you simply looking to be upset with someone, I'm probably lying to you right now.