Before I go any further, I just want to make it clear that I'm not disregarding the fact that the phone gripped in a certain way drops the signal.
I want to ask a question on how this information is presented. Now I'm not going to claim to be some RF expert, so feel free to correct me where I'm wrong.
The way I understand it, a perfect, great, fantastic signal for a phone would be -50db, and the call is barely sustainable at -113db, so why does her app show a graph from -120 to -80. If the app showed the scale from -120 to -50, it would be more obvious that the original signal is on the much lower end of the scale, instead of the "Darn Good Reception" that she claims in the first five seconds of her video.
In fact, what I'm taking from this video, is that Apple just might be right, and the signal is being misrepresented by the bars on the device. If the signal strength number is linear (and it's probably not, I'm happy to be corrected here), I'd calculate that it should be barely a 2 bar out of 5 signal to start with, and not a 5 bar "Darn Good Reception".
I keep hearing from people saying that iPhones have always had a bad reputation of dropped calls, but in 2 years of iPhone ownership, I have NEVER had a dropped call. I am also not in the US, and not using AT&T, but instead using the provider in my country that has the best coverage.
The several people I know who also own iPhones (they got one after they played with mine) on the same carrier have also never mentioned call drop outs, but the couple on a smaller carrier say it happens all the time, but they blame their carrier, not their phone. Perhaps this blame should be pushed towards AT&T, as it looks to me like you've been accepting pitiful performance for years, and just been duped by the seemingly high signal indicator on your phones and blamed the phone.
I could also be full of it, and not know what I'm talking about, but I'm still eager to pick up the iPhone 4 when it gets released here later this month and try it for myself. If the signal problem does affect me, then I'll return it and get my money back.