Sorry for not answering you Carouser:
As far as I know, they don't know what's happening. I asked about getting refund and the rep stated that could be arranged, but I really want my iPad. I have waited for it this long so I guess I can wait a few more days. As long as it doesn't take another three weeks for me to get the thing.
Well it sounds like you are getting some satisfaction from the reps. I think you should be focused on getting 'the model of iPad you paid for' and worry less about 'the iPad that was in the truck and almost at my door'. Clearly someone made a mistake, nobody is actively trying to withhold an iPad from you (why would they do this?). I doubt it will take three weeks. Just think - if the delivery notice had said it was showing up two days from now, and you never had someone wait at the door, none of this would be an issue. And you might still get it two days from now.