One home builder says “you can do what you want - we might throw up a warning that what you want isn’t a good idea, but if you want to put an electrical outlet in your bathtub, you can!” The other says “we don’t think you should have to think about safety or security so we’ll handle that for you, but it’s our way or the highway. If you don’t like it, go see the other builder.” I don’t know why people on MacRumors always seem shocked lots of people prefer the second option.
If you don’t like Apple’s rules buy from the competition. Millions of people buy Apple devices because of these rules (or maybe more accurately, because of the benefits resulting from these rules), not in spite of them.
It’s incredible to me the amount of people on this forum who think they should be able to dictate how Apple’s OS operates when there is a perfectly fine alternative that does everything that they want.