I'm not sure the general public views things the same as some on this board. But maybe apple could make the process, not so much in your face for those who know what they are doing.I'd agree. It's most likely how Apples adoption rate to iOS 10 is so high. Most people look at that and say, oh no I have to decide now or later tonight those are my only choices. When in reality there is not ever, I prefer to be in control of when a major update is about to take hold.
In our family though, the golden rule is "press the update button" and I'm on the beta of 10.3.