Is it really missing…or just different
Even in pre-pandemic times, when I happened to be working remote on days here and there, my version of a “watercooler” conversation was:
1. Have an idea/thought
2. Chat somebody on whatever tool: “Hey, do you have 5/whatever to talk about x?”
3. Then hopping on an impromptu video call to talk it out.
No meeting request, no pre-planning, no agenda.
It’s funny, my last position had a literal watercooler by the bathrooms. The only bathrooms, and the only watercooler. ~80 person office, all on one floor, plus I considered all of my colleagues very sociable, on average. You’d think the perfect recipe for all of these “serendipitous” conversations…
…but these spontaneous conversations rarely happened, either with me in them or observed. People overwhelmingly got their water, then headed off to the next meeting or back to their desk to get back to work.
Even in person, with those people—I had better luck initiating a quick conversation through the method above, just instead of a zoom call, we’d grab an un-booked room!