I think people here and in this generation in general, don't realize how much damage this stuff can have on kids and teens, especially later when they try to have a normal relationship.
It's been scientifically proven that folks who consumed stuff like this (actually the more harder stuff) fail to have a normal love life.
PS: I don't think violence and blood in TV shows and movies are much better...
Yes you can go on and flame me about my post.
So, in all seriousness, really? I don't see how you can support such a position. There are many countries where children are exposed to "this stuff" and people in these countries are able to have normal, healthy relationships. Example, in Austria there are pictures of naked women in ads, normal tv stations have porn on them, and brothels are not that uncommon. However, the divorce rate is 46% (
link). That isn't any higher than in the States, where a 50% divorce rate is often given.
I think if you really want kids to grow up and have healthy relationships, then sex shouldn't be something that is seen as taboo or wrong, but instead they need to be able to approach it rationally and logically. This comes through good parenting and discussions with the child.
As far as the iPad is concerned, they can already get porn on it with the internet. This opens up nothing new to them. Personally, I don't care about this app, but I don't understand the big opposition to it.
Also, since you said it has been "scientifically proven" that people who look at this stuff can't have a normal relationship, can you actually cite the study?