you know what each device can do before you buy them.
to expect Apple to change things to suit your perceived needs beggars belief.
While I also am of the belief "you knew what it was when you bought it," a case can be made why Apple and it's users could benefit from allowing VMs and not crippling them when they do. It's similar to Parallels on my Mac, which gives me the ability to run one or two Windows programs without carrying around a second device.
It's just about flexibility and options. If my iPad Pro could run Windows at a reasonable speed there would be times I really wouldn't need my Mac when I'm out. Given the M series chips' power I suspect they could easily do that; if they wanted to and might sell one or two more pros in the process.
details on what you want iPadOS to do that it isnt?
Run Visio and a fully featured version of Office to use VBA.