I don’t see the military taking over our country either. They are much, much too patriotic to do that. They uphold their sworn military oath because they have honor, character, strength and a willingness to sacrifice. And Americans appreciate that sacrifice, the vast majority anyway.Different statistics show that weapons are used 500k to 3 million times per year. That does not mean that shots were fired in those scenarios, just drawing and showing weapon was enough in those cases.
And regarding fighting US military. Rag tag insurgents in Afghanistan defeated Soviets and then kept our forces busy. And from what I see we still did nit defeat them. Plus I don't see US Military fighting civilian population in the US. Troops will either fail to to follow orders or military will just remain neutral.
Sure, there might be the random nut job who might call them suckers, who can’t understand what’s in it for them, but they are to be pitied.