It's really a shame you can't just do your secretary like you could in the good old days. Now there's all these laws and stuff.
My wife is my only employee now, and what with the kids at home, work is the only place ... uh ...
It's really a shame you can't just do your secretary like you could in the good old days. Now there's all these laws and stuff.
My wife and I were talking last night and she said she wished she could go back in time and talk to her younger self and tell her it would all be alright.
Be on a couch with a girl new years eve....it works![]()
Two couches get uncomfortable after a while.
There is such a thing as the "friends zone" enter it and you'll never leave it without being broken into a total emotional state.
God do I know what that feels like. All to often does this happen..
It take a long time to coax your way out of that heavily guarded wall.
This thread has a brilliant mix of horrible and good advice.
Someone said don't approach girls in groups ... wtf! Approaching groups is best, its a little more difficult I'll admit but the payoff is much better. If you win the group, its much easier to win the girl. You can isolate one of them and her friends won't be dragging her all around and back to the group ... because they trust you. The key word there is trust. You're a good guy, you met all of them, you weren't afraid of them, oh yeah and you're the center of attention. And if you want to get in a relationship with a girl, you date her friends ... why wait to meet them.
If you're really afraid of being rejected you aren't at all ready to meet girls and have relationships.
There's no problem with meeting a girl just about anywhere. If you like to go out, and she likes to go out, no problem meeting at a bar. Guess what, going out is a common interest.
Don't date out of your league? This is a question of opinion and confidence. I would be depressed if I was not dating up.
But enough bashing for a minute. There is good advice here. Confidence is awesome, women look for leaders. Being a leader is sexy and will build attraction. Body language is also key in projecting confidence.
Just remember, that you're special, you're the prize. If you live with that kind of attitude it will work out well. If anyone has any specific questions shoot me a PM.
You have to step up your game and make an attempt to treat women like people deserving of some respect.
Respect is earned.
i agree... and there are two reasons why this happen, either the guy is just too slow and take too long so it goes into the "f-zone" or there are other guys like me who just can't actually start likin
g a girl until getting to know her well enough an dthen it's too late you are already in the "f-zone"... both of them suck...
Maybe it's because the "nice guys" are less likely to call her fat or whatever.
It's so difficult to just "be confident" when you're of the shy/modest personality unfortunately!
couldn't agree more.Lau said:Don't forget there's quiet confidence too (in my opinion the best kind) – just having the confidence to be yourself. Even if that's being able to say "I'm really shy" – if it's your personality, just get on with it, just be positive and confident about it, i.e. modesty fine, just don't put yourself down.
it does sound that way, rude and shallow, and rather uniformed, to put it kindly.Hope this doesn't sound rude/shallow but I often observe that the better looking the girl, the more likely she'll only go for the real confident (bordering on arrogant) guys and do all the stereotypical "friend zone" stuff and game playing. The more you head towards the uh, opposite, the more likely it is that they actually like the nice/shy/quiet lads.
Maybe it's because the "nice guys" are less likely to call her fat or whatever.
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hmmmm.Well, I can't possibly give any form of worthy advice as I'm 25 and not even been kissed...
it does sound that way, rude and shallow, and rather uniformed, to put it kindly.