I used to use Lysol wipes but now that I have a leather case, I can't really do that - though I might wipe the screen if a friend/coworker uses it. But I've gotten to the point where I'm old and cranky and I don't show people my phone or let them touch it so I haven't had to clean it. If I do show a photo, which I rarely do now (I'll just send it to their phone) - I'll hold it near me and make it clear that I don't want to let go of it.
I may be a germaphobe (I've been called this) but I have absolutely no desire to touch other people's phones. If I do, I'll make a B line to the bathroom and give my hands a good scrub. My wife's phone? I don't do this. We share a living space and life together. But someone elses? So I'm not completely insane.
The thing about Lysol wipes - it leaves a film on the glass that can affect the touch sensitivity. So I take a soft t-shirt or cloth and dab a little water to get that film off.
I wouldn't recommend doing lysol wipes very often. (I average maybe 4-5 times a year).
99% of the time, a puff of breath and wipe on my t-shirt is what I do to remove fingerprints on the glass.