~Shard~ said:
That's great
Abstract, consider yourself very lucky.

.......I will definitely make them appreciate working and earning money and paying for their own way as well, and the resulting responsibility and value in that, (so I'm not going to make it too easy on them

).....
For me and my mum and step-dad, money has always been a non-issue. Its not that my mum and dad were rich (I had a bad childhood and dead-beat, abusive dad, and we were pretty bad financially for the first 16-17 years of my life, I would say), but I think it's because they were chinese. An education was a "need," and my mum sacrificed sooooo much to make sure I had what I needed to do well.
I don't keep track of $$$ with my mum, and my mum doesn't with me. She doesn't "owe" me a dime, even if I was 19 and used my own credit card to buy a $300 digital camera for her online. When I look at my bank account, I don't even KNOW what money is mine, and what money is hers. We guesstimate how much I need whenever my money runs low, and my mum puts money into my account.
Again, we don't keep track of money, so who cares where that money came from? All the money I earn, my $25000 per year scholarship, gift money, my parents contribution all goes into the one account.
Eg: For my entire life, my grandfather has always given me $1000 every Chinese New Years, and people expect me to spend some of it. I never do. I don't buy something
JUST because I just got $1000 as a gift. If I "need" something, I buy it. If I need to spend it on school, I spend that money on school. If I "want" something, I'll use my judgement to see if it's worth it.
I'm 25 and have also had around 8-10 jobs in my life, some of them very difficult. It was
NOT always this easy.