CompUser said:
My sister goes to Tufts University.
She graduated #1 in her class in High School. She played varsity soccer all 4 years of HS (there were also JV and freshman teams) and she would have done basketball and track except she went to the Greater Hartford Academy of Math and Science for the 2nd half of her school day.
She got no money from the high school's various scholarships. Additionally she got no merit money from Tufts because they don't give money out for being academically good. Of course, no financial aid (well my mom is a pediatrician, but there are still people whos parents don't make an a lot of $$$ who still don't get $$$). On her midterms she got a 99.5 on chemistry and a 98 on her spanish (how is that possible).
She plans on going to med school to become a dermatologist (I think, it changes often).
My parents are paying for everything. They don't want to have my sister out of college and in $160,000 debt and even more if she goes to med school.
i have a friend who went to a baby ivy, then went into business for himself which didn't work, and the total debt was well over 200k (maybe even more)
...to save money when he later was in graduate school, he went to a state funded university so as not to add more to the large debt he owed and got a decent job (i am sure he could have done the graduate school at another ivy, but work history, age, and experience with a good state funded master's degree is good enough)
there are plenty of people who go to a stanford or harvard for their undergraduate degree (just because they were accepted) and later in life, when they have kids, mortgage, car payments, etc, they may get their master's at cal or ucla and save a ton of money
and most realize that, as i mentioned, after age 30, it's one's work experience and history that account for future job raises, and not what school one went to
i also know another man, who is completely broke who went (had to due to lack of funds) to hayward state university (then $1500 a year) for a couple of years to get his master's years after he got his $100,000 dollar education for four years and a ba at amherst