As an iOS user for over two years that will continue on for at least four years, I am jealous when people do Bluetooth exchanges on their phones. I remember this actually happening in Christmas 2008. A bunch of my cousins were gathering around and were Bluetooth transfering mp3 songs with a Sidekick, Curve, Blackjack, and Moto Q while I stood there in disgust. Another mandatory syncing to iTunes to get any new content. I also hate that I can't use the iPhone as a disk storage like the iPod classic and there is no upgradeable memory slot.
But hey, those people are jealous with some of the things we have. We can't have it all. To solve it, just be a phone collector and enjoy them all! Get the best of all worlds. iTunes or drag and drop, get the works.