No I hadn't callibrated once a month or anywhere near it, but I don't feel like I should have to to keep my battery alive for a year...
Like I wrote before, your battery operates fine without calibration. Calibration just helps you find problems (like the one you have right now) and give you an accurate idea of battery life when you're not on AC power. You should perform the calibration every month when you get your new battery because it's usually the first indicator of possible trouble, and because the juices should flow every once in a while to keep things in good shape.