Updates...
I called Apple Care on my way home from work. Explained what I'm seeing, and was told that I was the 4th person that specific rep. had dealt with this week regarding poor battery life on the 4S. Take that for what it is... lol
Anyways I was told that Apple would cross-ship a brand new phone to me, or I could call a local Apple Store and if they have one in stock, I can just walk in and swap it for a brand new device.
Apple return policy is 30 days for the iPhone.
So with that knowledge I called my carries, AT&T, and was told that I am covered with their "30 day no remorse" guarantee and as long as I called them before Nov. 7th I can cancel the new plan and revert back to my old phone at any time.
Additionally they told me that I would need to bring my old phone, a 3G, into a AT&T store so they could update it with a new SIM card... free of charge. I asked why, and they said when you upgrade to a new device they "kill" your old SIM in their system and it cannot be reactivated.
Basically I have two more weeks to really make up my mind, and I'm going to call and see if I can find one at the local (hour+ away) Apple Store...
I like the device enough to try replacing it, but if that one shows any signs of similar behavior then it's refund time.
The AT&T rep. told me that he's been given documentation on how to help people optimize their batteries, and to tell them that the 4S is supposed to be draining the battery much faster than a 4 or 3GS because of the A5 chip... their words not mine.
Anyways hope this info is helpful to someone else. I won't have time to drive to the physical store until next week, so for now I'm going to try cycling the battery a few more times over the next few days and see what's up.
I was really pissed this morning when after 7 hours on the AC charger, I saw 91% on the phone when I unplugged the cable... that was a first, and not a good sign IMO.
So how's my usage after seeing that this morning, 12 hours later? Well I am at 8% and these are my stats... just awesome #'s