1. From what I'm understanding, an SSD boot drive will help me out substantially, I plan on getting one of these, preferably intel 160gb unless I'm told about something else that's better.
a. these drives are 2.5" for the most part, so tell me what i need to mount it, or if there is a 3.5" for the same price somewhere.
The Intel 160GB (Gen 2) is the one to go with from current consensus. Mounting can be done in the empty optical bay. You need to let us know if you're willing to DIY or not, and exactly how many drives you plan to install.
Ready made mounts are usually a bit expensive (there's an exception or two, depending on specifics), and it's best to place it in the empty optical bay (leaves HDD bays open for 3.5" drives).
There is a 3.5" model line though, called the Colossus by OCZ, but untested right now. They do offer larger capacities though (up to 1TB), but it's not exactly inexpensive.
2. The more I read about the gtx285 the more I think I got screwed on buying the 4870, it benches at almost 4x the speed in gflops! Should I still wait until the 2010 models come to see if we get a better option? i Do need something solid.
a. to answer questions about my work, i plan on using AE/C4D + Modo and ALSO Ableton Live 7 in 2010 substantially. As my work goes right now I do a lot of rendering and I'm just learning how to get myself into trouble with AE. My company will most likely adopt a high end large body format with 1080p DSLR, so video editing will rest in the hands of my computer.
nVidia cards don't fare that well under OS X, as the drivers aren't wonderful. They've always underperformed compared to their PC counterparts. ATI cards tend to function better under OS X, as the drivers seem to work more efficiently.
But ultimately, it's up to you. If you can benefit from the GTX285, then get it. Otherwise, keep the 4870, and upgrade again later (future card not yet announced).
4.I think as it stands right now, I WILL be keeping this machine throughout 2010 ( thanks nanofrog ) That means I'll be maxing ram specified for this machine, however do you think the market will shift away from the dd3 8500 mac ram modules?
a. If so, should I wait and see if the price will drop on a 32gb matched set? OWC seems to still have the best price for this.
DDR3 will be around awhile, in all the variants, so there's no real hurry. I'm with
VirtualRain on this one. Wait and see if you need it. If so, get it, as the memory market could still lower the prices a bit on the larger capacity DIMM's.
5. Still no way for me to upgrade these processors? My office is kept pretty cool. Still looking for a safe overclock solution
You can upgrade processors in the '09 MP's. You cannot however, OC them.
6. Going to hold off on raid solutions until I get a SSD. When I do get one, should I mechanical raid the remaining 3 bays in my machine, and switch to a drobo backup?
You've a few options.
1. Install the SSD to the optical bay, leaving all 4x HDD bays open for 3.5" drives. You could still fit another HDD in the optical drive for Windows if you wish, but you'd need an interface card for it at a minimum, unless you pull the optical drive and make it external.
2. Backups could be done via NAS or via eSATA and a Port Multiplier enclosure. Both will work, and you'd have the ability to run a 4x member array if you wish (level will depend on whether or not its software based - OS X - or a true RAID card, and the features it offers).