I agree. Benchmarks will show a difference, but as we know from Android vs iOS, benchmarks aren't the deciding factor in real world performance. Many of the upgrades in processing power are not specific to 32 vs 64 bit, and even if Apple still had a 32 bit CPU every new CPU will be significantly faster than the previous generation.
Apple seems to think their users always think higher numbers are better. It's why they always mention they have a 64 bit CPU over 32 bit in Androids, they make a point to tell everyone how many transistors are in their CPU, and they love graphs that show growth with #x times more performance than last year. Yet they leave out battery size, RAM, etc. since they are relatively low.
That's true those metrics are lower than the currant crop of android competitors, such as:
1 gb of ram vs 3 gb
2915 mah vs 3200 mah+
Dual core vs quad core
And yet with these specs, apple still managed to trump most competitors on performance and battery all in a smaller, more efficiently designed package,
The reason for the discrepancy:
a8 64bit processor
iOS 64 bit architecture
iOS 8 64 bit applications
You need all three to see any significant gains.
Good luck