I know I said I didn't want to have this debate again but since we're here
Excellent post CalBoy.
I'll ask a question I've asked before. Why do so many mods disappear from the site, especially those that were once very active forum participants? And don't tell me that life changes and they don't have time as they are active online elsewhere.
I still maintain that moderators who don't participate actively in the forums are part of the problem.
All of the moderators past and present were active members at the time of their selection as a moderator, and they were/are heavily invested in MR
Why does that change? I can only offer up my own personal experience and I in no way want to speak for any other moderators
1. Time is an issue. Whereas before, I would log in to MR and immediately join in a conversation or look for some place to participate, now I feel my first responsibility is to modding, not participating. You look at every thread and every post differently, and you open and check threads you would probably never have looked at otherwise. I have a duty to do, and based on the feedback we receive from some, we aren't doing a very good job, so it puts additional pressure to seek and destroy trolls, spammers and such. There is a LOT going on here in the Forums, and tracking down disputes, quotes, he said/she said takes a lot of time and effort. In the end, there is less time left for participation to the extent there once was. It is as simple as that.
2. It wears on you. Again, before I was a moderator, I could ignore insane trolling threads (or just report and move on), and I could bait and give a snarky response to some idiot who posts yet again about Flash, Blu-ray, Android, et. al. Now, instead of avoiding things, I have a responsibility to not only get involved but to mediate them in a professional and responsible manner to represent the site. While I encourage post reports, the junior high food fights of pointing fingers and reporting each other over and over for petty remarks takes its toll. After time, it gets really tiresome to deal with re-registrations of the same individuals who join here as their form of entertainment - baiting others. Of course there are the constant stream of "is this the iPhone X" threads and "how much is this worth" or "what should I do" or "Apple sux" or (fill in the blank, you've seen them all too). The difference is, while they are annoying to the Forum Users, they are work for the moderators, and it does wear on you.
3. Nothing is as black and white as it seems. As a user, I thought I knew what should be done. Ban this guy. Delete this thread. Put that guy in time out. But when you actually have the ability to do these things, it changes your perspective. With great power comes great responsibility so to speak. Black and white suddenly became a million shades of gray and you had to look at the big picture and try to be consistent and fair, because you will be held accountable for how you use the power you now have. Monday Morning and Arm Chair Quarterbacking is easy. Not so much on the field on Sundays. We as moderators have all made our mistakes and taken our lumps from time to time. I have had to apologize to folks for misunderstanding things and taking them too far. I have restored deleted posts and been subject to the scorn of the general population and the demis alike, but I think I speak for all the moderators when I say we try to do our very best, be consistent and fair without allowing personal feelings to interfere.
I will be honest, I didn't want to become a moderator for those very reasons. I had long correspondence with Q before I agreed. But in the end, somebody has to do the work of cleaning the toilets, and I care about this place.