If you come upon a woman abruptly, or unexpectedly, or approach too closely, or address her as though you are expecting or are owed a response, why then, well, yes, her thoughts about the encounter may well be less than wholly welcoming.
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If you come upon a woman abruptly, or unexpectedly, or approach too closely, or address her as though you are expecting or are owed a response, why then, well, yes, her thoughts about the encounter may well be less than wholly welcoming.
I don't suppose it has occurred to you that a woman walking down the street minding her own business may not want to be harassed by some man who thinks he has "the right attitude" to strike up a "fun conversation."
Have you considered that the man who adopts this sort of behavior is exhibiting some seriously narcissistic and arrogant behavior?
Does he extract some prurient pleasure by being so wantonly aggressive?
Does he get excited by putting women in a state of apprehension?
Dude, if come negative and with that attitude for sure you will get rejected and worse. Those are the things someone with no experience has in their mind.
is not that you see a good looking girl and jump on her just like that, now, I am not here to teach social skill by the way.
I'm with mobilehaathi on this one. No matter how charming the guy, most women would be somewhat uneasy if a strange guy approached them on the street.
Oh no, I know. Last year I gave a chocolate to one and next week I got a sexual harassment note. And I had a girlfriend who actually took me to court for domestic violence and the judge noticed that nothing happened and then I got yielded by the judge for dating crazy women "what a ^%#%# did you see in that woman?"
But again, 3 month later I was dating and getting laid with 4 different girls at same time, my Mom one day told me: who is your actual girlfriend? I do not know their names, I call them all "my dear".
Trust me, is in your vibe. If you are carefree and smiling... they fall for that. Not all of them, but most of them most of the time.
My older sister, she is super snob, she used to date bankers and such. But the only time I heard her crying was for a guy who had no money, a cheap motorcycle but the guy was funny and carefree. He just had fun with her and she felt for him.
It is in your vibe.
Last year I was working with a girl who was a graphic designer, I was very stressed out about a project. I was in another vibe. I saw her yesterday in another office after 5 months, I came all carefree saying hello to everybody and she poped up her eyes. I left without saying goodbye to her and she was looking around the computers like "is he leaving without saying good bye to me'. An hour later I came back and I was teasing her... you are to white! you need to go to the beach bad. She told me to drop the complains in the box. Then I told her: Let me take you this Saturday: she said... ok!
Just be fun to be with, but from being relaxed.
Heard on the radio a year or so ago that Tinder was no longer going to be a free service, It would be free in the sense of finding people in your general area but to view profiles and do certain things you had to pay.
