I had AirPods Pro but they kept falling out of my ears. My wife now uses them. So I did buy the AirPods Max since I am an early adopter 🙂
However, as I did with my HomePods, I waited about a month before buying some from an earlier adopter than me at about a 40% discount. I guess he needed the cash.
I really love them, yes even the silly looking case. The integration with everything in the ecosystem is flawless. The sound quality is great but you should not buy them just based on that. Sound cancelling is great and transparency mode is just very good. I keep them in the case at all times. Would and on / off switch be welcomed? Probably.
I travel a lot for business but obviously not at all in the last 14 months. When I do get on a plane I will probably find it annoying that, contrary to my Bose QC35, they do not fold neatly into a case. I think I will do maybe one or two business trips before deciding if I invest in a better case.
So, to conclude, was it a good buy? At 40% discount, yes. At full price, no. Search the sites where they are sold used and you may find a gem.