Almost all of my heroes growing up (besides my family) were sports figures. That's all I knew and all I did. Cal Ripken Jr. meant everything to me and to a large extent, he still does. You can't force role models on kids. They choose. Certainly not all athletes are role models, but some are, willingly. Tiger was one of them and that's what I'm talking about.
To me there is a difference between heroes and role models
I have sports figures that I followed, supported and cheered
But I didn't try to pattern my life after them
After all, I could never really know them
Yes, I could learn about dedication, teamwork and other similar things in a generic way
But I could never invest in them in a real and tangible way
My father and my uncle are different
I knew them on a personal level, and I could seek to emulate them in real life
You say Cal Ripken means everything to you
What exactly does that mean??
Do you know him?
Have you spent time with him?