So Frustrated!!!!

Hi everybody,
YOU GOT NO IDEA.
A real nightmare....never had a problem related to any Apple software suites before. I finally finished working on my website
www.gabop.com using iLife 06. It went online about four months ago...everything, alway, flawless, not one crash, yes limited...but fine for what I need.
Four days ago: bought iLife 08 and iWork 08.
Installed both on 2 machines: dual 2.5 G5 (no intel) and a 17" intel that is six months old .
iPhoto kind of goods...I was very well organized...EVENTS screwed up everything...just a few hours of work...acceptable...ggghhh, so I can learn the new interface...
I created an archive for my old website, burned a CD, then launched iWeb and my old 06 domain file...all moved around, no files missing...reorganized and hit publish...my powerPC failed, and iweb crashed...tried again about 5 times...
Then thought, well maybe...let me try the intel machine...
So got the CD i just burned, loaded into my laptop, launched iweb...had to reorganize for the second time.
Then I published the site, and all went well.
Quit iWeb, went in Safari...all good....
DAY AFTER:
I wanted to work hte site a bit...I launche iWeb and opened my domain...NOTHING WAS THERE!!!!!!!!!!! the page layout was fine, but all the files, movies, backgrounds, blogs, posts, podcast...ALL GONE.
I checked the domain file...10 Mb! WHAT? Last night it was over 100Mb.
I spent the morning redoing my site...I MUST HAVE DONE SOMETHING WRONG...while I'm working I am monitoring the domain file...the size grows as I add my files....APPLE S! Save: BHAM! the domain file drops to 6.8 Mb...I wish I could film it.
NOTHING STAYS INTO THE DOMAIN FILE...Now this is how I am working.
I was able to duplicate the domain file and I keep it on my desktop while I do work with the original domain...I am trying to be some sort of HUMAN AUTOSAVE...duplicating my file when it grows...
But iWeb is very spontaneus and there is never a sign that something is going to happen...the file just becomes 1/10 of its original size...like that.
I read a few posts on this page.
- I know my system very very well. Never had a problem before
-I do not have any third party plug ins
- I do perform mantainance constantly
- I am not willing to "install a fresh OS and then use iLife08", but thanks for the tip...
Sorry for the long post, but at least now I let it out.
Oh, Sorry, Just one thing,
What's the matter with the iPhotop library? I loved to be able to "chronosync" my libraries across my machines...now the library is a whopping 16 Gb file, impossible to sync...I guess from Now on I will HAve to be a HUMAN SYNCH as well...and firewire my library back and forth.
PLEASE NOOOOO
Ciao.