I think that's a fair point. I just get annoyed when people spread BS. I also didn't directly call you or anyone an idiot. If you sit on such an expensive device, especially as big as a 6plus and expect it to be fine than I still think you are an idiot. Again not meaning you in particular, just in general.
Yes, we all know the iPhone 6 is not as strong as the 5s or other thicker devices. The 5s is also not as strong as the thicker and smaller iPhone 4.
No, the iPhone 6 is not a weak as people claim and Bendgate is not a widespread problem, not even close.
I also doubt that the 6s will improve much in this regard. In order to put it on par with a 5s they would need to add alot of strengthening materials to make it resit another 30 or so pounds of force. This will add weight and since the iphone 6 already weighs more than a 5s, I doubt they will do this. As the tests have shown it is considered strong by many standards, especially for it's thiness. There will always be these types of threads, just look at the once for the newly announced Corning Gorilla Glass 4. It's twice as shatter resistant from a 1m drop than Gorilla Glass 3. Now people say it should be measured from 2m. Eventually it needs to survive a fall from the first floor, than the 2nd etc. Its and endless cycle.
I think your concerns are valid but in my opinion if you want an iPhone 6 than buy one and treat it like you should treat a 700-1000 dollar device. I promise it won't bend. If it miracle does bend take a picture, post it in this thread to tell me "I told you so, bendgate is real". Than go to an Apple Store and get a replacement or refund.