holy cow, do you really wear your watch that tight?? look downright painful!!I think it looks fine and I personally love bigger watches. I just moved from 44mm to 45mm Apple Watch and I like it. As long as its comfortable that is what’s important. As long as it feels fine in the next week me days I wouldn’t get a 41m. It’s just too small. Here are come pics of my new 45mm
OP, tbh, and since you asked, I think the 41 mm would look better on you. But, the 45 mm looks fine also -- I wouldn't say "weird," maybe just a tad large.