Either way, I think Apple come off looking bad guys. Firstly, one of THEIR employees loses a prototype device. Yes, Gizmodo paid for and pulled the device apart online for everyone to see, but they complied with Apples written request for return (what was the time delay between first reveal online and the letter?). Now Apple are happy to sit quietly in the deep background, looking like the Dark Lords themselves, Microsoft allowing seizures of equipment, threats of criminal procedings, etc. Looks like other people are going to suffer for the extreme paranoia coming top down at Apple.
Sorry, I like their kit, but the corporate mentality that seems to exist there now doesn't bear any resemblance to the two young maverick phone freakers of the 70's that created Apple
Apple are the ones who come out of this looking bad, having had the largest amount of free pre-publicity for the new iPhone they could have hoped for!