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@LizKat and @Scepticalscribe

Is it fair to take actions in PRSI and extrapolate them to the rest of the forum? If you spend any time in the Mac Pro section, PowerPC, OSX, or Alternatives section you'll see that while things get heated they rarely devolve, PRSI is just special. I don't spend any real time in the MBP section and no time at all in the iStuff sections so I won't comment on those and that may be where the problem lies i just don't know.

To all just remember that plain talk or telling it like it is is different than vulgar.

On your last point I could not agree more.

As far as extrapolation: I have never thought it necessary to consider moderation of language differently in other forums and in PRSI.

On the rest: Due to increasing hostility of some members towards Apple products or Apple the corporation in general, I usually stay out of forums that are active just after launches or major software releases unless I've something relevant to report or inquire about. So far I think I've managed to post stuff like that without causing anyone to think I still imagine I'm in PRSI when I post it :p
 
I don't feel I can be certain that when a forum user doesn't speak out against something, it's fair to say that the user condones it.

I think there is a distinction to be made between a simple forum user and the MR agents tasked with interpreting and enforcing the rules. When a simple forum user fails to respond to something it certainly does not suggest that they condone it. However, when the moderators appear to repeatedly ignore extraordinarily vile behavior it does suggest that MR condones it. It suggests that such behavior was judged to be within the realm of acceptable discourse on the forum by people with the authority to make such determinations.
 
I think there is a distinction to be made between a simple forum user and the MR agents tasked with interpreting and enforcing the rules. When a simple forum user fails to respond to something it certainly does not suggest that they condone it. However, when the moderators appear to repeatedly ignore extraordinarily vile behavior it does suggest that MR condones it. It suggests that such behavior was judged to be within the realm of acceptable discourse on the forum by people with the authority to make such determinations.

That's assuming too much. One important word here is "appears". For example, there are thousands of new posts made every day. There is a small group of volunteer moderators who donate time they balance between jobs and families. Some of the posts described in this thread have not been reported. Put these things together and you see how assumptions are not reliable sources of information.

Another issue is how balancing the needs and wishes of 1 000 000 members can seem very straightforward until you have to do it yourself (not you personally, "you" in general). But that's a subject for another thread, and although it's certainly relevant, it's not the main issue here.
 
That's assuming too much. One important word here is "appears". For example, there are thousands of new posts made every day. There is a small group of volunteer moderators who donate time they balance between jobs and families. Some of the posts described in this thread have not been reported. Put these things together and you see how assumptions are not reliable sources of information.

Another issue is how balancing the needs and wishes of 1 000 000 members can seem very straightforward until you have to do it yourself (not you personally, "you" in general). But that's a subject for another thread, and although it's certainly relevant, it's not the main issue here.
I understand; I'm just trying to point out something that I think scepticalscribe was saying versus how you had responded (simple posters versus MR agents). Yes, indeed, I appreciate that the needs and wishes of 1M users are extraordinarily difficult to manage.

I say "appears" in the context of actual reported posts being adjudicated one way or another by the moderation team. But I say "appears" because the process is, necessarily, opaque. I use "appears" as an acknowledgement of that fact, but what I am talking about here isn't the lack of proactive moderation---clearly that's nearly impossible given the volume of posts and perhaps it isn't even desirable---but rather I am talking about the decisions that must have been made as a result of a post being reported. When a post is reported, a decision is made, and the result of that decision dictates what is and isn't allowed on MR. It is hardly perfect, and it will never please everyone.

To be honest, I'm only really talking about PRSI. There are some fairly rotten behavior patterns trawling through that sub-forum that certainly raise my eyebrows.

In the end, I don't even know if there is anything to reasonably do from MR's perspective, but I think it is worth noting and thinking about.
 
That's a deflection from the fact that the language cited by the OP is disgusting. I'm surprised the report did not result in an edit or removal of the post.



Of course it's not the end of the world. The end of MacRumors world is when one is permanently banned.

But now allowing someone to say "****ed in the ass" or "fisted in the ass" is a sign of growth and stability?

I beg to disagree. This is not widely accepted language for kitchens and living rooms. Not by a long shot.

Censorship of ideas is one thing. Cleaning up gutter language for "treated unfairly" is something else again.

MacRumors needs to get a grip. There seem to be a lot of deliberate end runs around the spirit of the profanity filters this year. The moderation had been part of what made the forums a pleasant place to debate or hang out.

Awhile back I remember long debates over whether "fanboy" or "fangirl" were to be considered insults. Wow, those were the days, huh? Now one may call political candidates pigs, sows, cows, or criminal bitches and when someone complains one may call them "fragile snowflakes"? I call such complainants people who remember the days of civil discourse.

MacRumors moderators have allowed themselves to be worn down by users of crude language, to the detriment of the forums. I'm sorry to hear that crude expressions have now been allowed to proliferate outside the PRSI as well. Y'all should have a rethink here. People well under the age of 13 doubtless browse these forums looking for clues on tech problems they encounter. I've provided MacR links in the past to young members of my own extended family. Maybe that's not such a great idea any more.

Superb post. And well said.

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I personally agree (though I have no opinion about the snowflake comment).



The discussion is, as I've already stated, taking place.

In answer to your request for a reason for the current rule in place, MacRumors chose way back not to police comments made about public figures as a balance between civil debate and allowing users to express themselves. Whether or not there should be a more clearly defined framework for this is certainly something that can be discussed.

That's useful feedback. I would encourage you to submit post reports of any examples you see, even if they're not direct rules violations. That will aid our discussion.


Again, I'll say that we take this seriously.

Thank you for taking the time to write a thoughtful reply.

Now, firstly, I am more than aware that the mods are volunteers, and that policing over one million users takes time and is demanding of time, resources, and juggling competing demands - for fairness, on the one hand, with the need to allow people to express passionate political positions, stances and views they have come to hold, on the other.

Balancing these competing demands is a constant challenge, and I do not fault MR for not always succeeding.

Moreover, I appreciate the politics will always engender excessive emotions - and I do understand this - for I have spent my entire professional life (and much of my personal life) immersed in the study of, the teaching of, and the analysis of, politics and political matters.

However, two things in your reply strike me as worthy of further comment.

These are - firstly - on the subject of reporting posts deemed offensive, and secondly on the position of MR of having taken a decision that the forum had decided on a policy of "not policing comments on public figures".

On the first, given that posts which had referred to Secretary Clinton as a 'criminal bitch' had been reported - not by me, yes, granted, this is true, but I am aware of such reports in the course of PMs exchanged with forum members whom I respect, - and, given that such reports were dismissed with exactly that response - namely, that MR does not "police comments on public figures", I decided not to pursue this further while the election campaign continued.

This was for two reasons: The first, frankly, was that I felt it would make no difference whatsoever. The decision had been taken, - that calling Secretary Clinton a 'criminal bitch' did not violate forum norms - because the forum had decided not to 'police comments made on public figures' - and I doubted that any further discussion - let alone a considered decision to reverse it - could have taken place while the election campaign continued.

The second is that I might not have been seen as a neutral actor on the issue, and thus, any complaint - in the form of any 'reported post' I might have made on this issue might have been easily dismissed. In any case, I had made no secret of the fact that I despised and detested Mr Trump and everything he stood for.

With that in mind, I decided to raise this issue after the election campaign had come to a - conclusion, and, had the OP not started a thread on this, I most certainly would have done so.

Now, then, to a small discussion on the more pressing subject of the forum's decision that it would prefer to engage in "not policing comments on public figures", or, rather, would prefer not to engage, or, not to have to engage, in "policing comments on public figures".

Right: The first point I would make here is the obvious one about language as a tool of power, what is otherwise known as "political correctness". Yes, even drawing attention to this is much derided, detested, disdained, and disliked in some 'right' wing circles - but it is no less important for that, and the point is this: Language is not neutral, as it is not simply the means - or vehicle - by which thoughts and ideas are expressed.

Instead, is a vehicle - and a culturally loaded vehicle at that - a vehicle for the expression of these self same thoughts and ideas, as it is freighted with attitudes and informed by prejudice long before what is thought to be any sort of objective description has even begun to be articulated.

Language is a tool of power, as those who have been in power (cultural, political, economic, legal, sociological) have usually ascribed to themselves the right to define those who do not hold this kind of power in terms which they set, and often in vocabularies and words which describe "the other" in terms which are insulting, abusive, belittling, condescending, and, often offensive, precisely because they have they power to do so.

Thus, this is what has been described as "political correctness" is all about - a recognition that language, in itself, is not neutral, and has often been used as an abuse of power in itself. This is what lay behind challenging the use of language as a tool of power, contesting the use in public of certain nouns and adjectives - because they were not neutral, they came with a context of loaded belittling insult - and calling out the assumed right of those people who would seek to use language as a means to insult and give offence, or seek to reclaim the right to do so - on the basis of what someone is (gender, race, ethnicity) rather than what they choose to do.

In the recent election, how language was used to insult candidates was different, and expressed differently, for the respective candidates.

Secretary Clinton was attacked - on these fora and elsewhere - on what she was, a woman - terms such as 'pig', 'criminal bitch' - were liberally used, whereas when Mr Trump was attacked on physical grounds - the adjective 'orange' was used - it was inferred that this had come about through actions of his, namely spending too long on sunbeds in pursuit of seeking an even suntan.

What has this to do with MR, and its decision not to "police comments on public figures"?

Simply this: The comments on public figures did not take place in a vacuum, and the insults directed at Hillary Clinton were often aimed at the fact that she was (is) a woman, not a political figure with a life in the public space - which is, most certainly, a matter for debate; in other words, insults directed at what she was born as (which makes it sexist), and not, at what she did, (which is politics).

Comments - and the insults which ride shot-gun alongside them - are not dished out equally. Women, and people of colour, and gays (among others) are insulted more, on the basis of what they are, rather than what they do, have done, or have chosen to do, and have done, in public life.

The fact that this was allowed, tolerated, overlooked, ignored, and dismissed on these fora has further implications beyond the depressing fact of merely allowing - and accepting - that women in the public space (as blacks in the public space) should now be expected to accept, as a matter of course, that sexist and racist remarks and insults are in danger of becoming a default setting for what it is considered acceptable to say to them and hurl at them when playing a role in the public space, as a result of what has been allowed to take place during this horrible election campaign.

Arguing that it is perfectly acceptable to call a woman who has a life in the public space a 'criminal bitch' - while attempting to explain that this is really rather a discourteous expression to use to a woman who turns down your unwelcome and unwanted advances doesn't really wash.

You can't really argue for a situation where calling a woman a 'criminal bitch' is perfectly acceptable if she has a public life, but is not really considered polite on the fora, (are the fora not public?) or in private - without the most excruciating linguistic and balancing act worthy of a contortionist - the kind that that has everyone in knots, not least the moderators. This is not remotely credible, or consistent.

Let us bring this even closer to home, on the fora:

So, when an alienated and frustrated teenager - and on this forum - tech dedicated as it is - inevitably, there have been many of them, - starts a thread looking for sympathy, guidance and advice on how to talk to women, and how he might persuade the lady he has his eye on to look upon him more favourably, and then discusses how the 'bitch' won't reply to his endless tsunami of tweets and texts - how can the forum credibly explain to him that, actually, it is perfectly okay to call a woman who seeks election to public office a "criminal bitch" but that a woman who rejects your awkward advances is a human being who might not welcome being called a "criminal bitch" when she turns you down, and - moreover - that she even has the right not to welcome being called a "criminal bitch" when she does actually turn you down?

You cannot - rationally - make the argument that this is perfectly acceptable and that it is permissible to describe women thus in the public - the political sphere - yet attempt to plead that it is unacceptable in private settings, or when addressing female forum members, or friends, or family, or colleagues.

As a woman, I have to say that I am appalled that MR chose not to contest, or dispute this term ('bitch') when used - openly, even though it was reported - and that, as it was not contested, it was apparently condoned - (yes, I repeat that I know full well that mod activity is voluntary, I appreciate that) but I am appalled that this was considered acceptable to use about a woman who was contesting an election in the public space.

By not calling it out, yes, you enabled it, allowed it, and condoned it.

And, in briefings which I have given, I have cited MR - a forum I like - as a regrettable example of the deplorable standard that public debate and discourse was allowed to plumb this year during the election campaign in the US.

Now, I write this as a former academic who specialised in politics (and the study of elections) and as the sort of "snowflake" who has worked on elections across the globe for twenty years, including running them, monitoring them, observing them, and analysing them, and reporting on them, to governments, international organisations and supranational bodies (the UN is an example of the former, while the EU would be classed as the latter, and yes, I have reported to both), in some of the most contested political spaces on the planet, so, yes, I do know about heightened emotions and fraught outcomes, and frightful consequences when things go wrong in electoral contests.

However, I think that your interpretation of what ought to be allowed to be said under the umbrella of the First Amendment too generous by far, and grossly and egregiously unfair, because insults and offensive comments are in themselves disproportionate; precisely because Secretary Clinton is a woman, most of the more vicious insults directed at her focussed on her gender, not her achievements, accomplishments, experience, political stances, positions, platforms, policies - and some of the latter did indeed beg questions. Serious questions.

Above all, since this discussion has been invited, I want to know if - on these fora - it is still considered acceptable to call a woman seeking public office a "bitch", and if so, why. And then, what argument can you credibly make to the misogynists on your threads to persuade them that this term should not be used when describing women in other contexts and still claim consistency in moderation.


@LizKat and @Scepticalscribe

Is it fair to take actions in PRSI and extrapolate them to the rest of the forum?
To all just remember that plain talk or telling it like it is is different than vulgar.

Yes, it is.

I have attempted to explain why this is so above.
 
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Superb post. And well said.



Thank you for taking the time to write a thoughtful reply.

Now, firstly, I am more than aware that the mods are volunteers, and that policing over one million users takes time and is demanding of time, resources, and juggling competing demands - for fairness with the need to allow people to express passionate positions, stances and views they have come to hold.

Balancing this is a challenge, and I do not fault MR for not always succeeding.

Moreover, I appreciate the politics will always engender excessive emotions - and I do understand this - for I have spent my entire professional life (and much of my personal life) immersed in the study of, the teaching of, and the analysis of, politics and political matters.

However, two things in your reply strike me as worthy of further comment.

These are - firstly - on the subject of reporting posts deemed offensive, and secondly on the position of MR of having taken a decision that the forum had decided on a policy of "not policing comments on public figures".

On the first, given that posts which had referred to Secretary Clinton as a 'criminal bitch' had been reported - not by me, yes, granted, this is true, but I am aware of such reports in the course of PMs with forum members whose perspectives I respect, - and, given that such reports were dismissed with exactly that response - namely, that MR does not "police comments on public figures", I decided not to pursue this further while the election campaign continued.

This was for two reasons: The first, frankly, was that I felt it would make no difference whatsoever. The decision had been taken, - that calling Secretary Clinton a 'criminal bitch' did not violate from norms - because the forum had decided not to 'police comments made on public figures' - and I doubted that any further discussion - let alone a considered decision to reverse it - could take place while the election campaign continued.

The second is that I might not have been seen as a neutral actor on the issue, and thus, any complaint - in the form of a 'reported post' made I might have made on this issue might have been easily dismissed. In any case, I made no secret of the fact that I detested Mr Trump and everything he stood for.

With that in mind, I decided to raise this issue after the election campaign had come to a - conclusion, and, had the OP not started a thread on this, I most certainly would have.

Now, then, to a small discussion on the more pressing subject of the forum's decision that it would prefer to engage in "not policing comments on public figures".

Right: The first point I would make here is the obvious - much derided, detested, disdained, and disliked in some 'right' wing circles - but no less important for that, and it is this: Language is not neutral, as it is not simply the means - or vehicle - by which thoughts and ideas are expressed.

Instead, is a vehicle - and a culturally loaded vehicle at that - a vehicle for the expression of these self same thoughts, attitudes and ideas, as it is freighted with attitudes and informed wth prejudice long before what is thought to be objective description even starts.

Language is a tool of power, as those who have been in power (cultural, political, economic, legal, sociological) have usually ascribed to themselves the right to define those who do not hold this kind of power in terms which they set, and often in terms which describe "the other" in terms which are insulting, abusive, belittling, condescending, and, often offensive, precisely because they have they power to do so.

Thus, this is what has been described as "political correctness" is all about - a recognition that language, in itself, is not neutral, and has often been used as an abuse of power in itself. This is what lay behind challenging the use of language as a tool of power, contesting the use in public of certain nouns and adjectives - because they were not neutral, they came with a context of loaded belittling insult - and calling out the assumed right of those people who would seek to use language as a means to insult and give offence - on the basis of what someone is (gender, race, ethnicity) rather than what they choose to do.

In the recent election, how language was used to insult candidates was different, and expressed differently, for the respective candidates.

Secretary Clinton was attacked - on these fora and elsewhere - on what she was, a woman - terms such as 'pig', 'criminal bitch' - were liberally used, whereas when Mr Trump was attacked on physical grounds - the adjective 'orange' was used - it was inferred that this had come about through actions of his, namely spending too long on sunbeds in pursuit of seeking an even suntan.

What has this to do with MR, and its decision not to "police comments on public figures"?

Simply this: The comments on public figures did not take place in a vacuum, and the insults directed at Hillary Clinton were often aimed at the fact that she was (is) a woman, not a political figure with a life in the public space - which is, most certainly, a matter for debate; in other words, insults directed at what she was born as (which makes it sexist), and not, at what she did, (which is politics).

Comments - and the insults which ride shot-gun alongside them - are not dished out equally. Women, and people of colour, and gays (among others) are insulted more, on the basis of what they are, rather than what they do, have done, or have chosen to do, and have done, in public life.

The fact that this was allowed, tolerated, overlooked, ignored, and dismissed on these fora has further implications beyond the depressing fact of merely allowing - and accepting - that women in the public space (as blacks in the public space) should now be expected to accept, as a matter of course, that sexist and racist remarks and insults are in danger of becoming a default setting for what it is considered acceptable to say to them and hurl at them when playing a role in the public space, as a result of what has been allowed to take place during this horrible election campaign.

Arguing that it is perfectly acceptable to call a woman who has a life in the public space a 'criminal bitch' - while attempting to explain that this is really rather a discourteous expression to use to a woman who turns down your unwelcome and unwanted advances doesn't really wash.

You can't really argue for a situation where calling a woman a 'criminal bitch' is perfectly acceptable if she has a public life, but is not really considered polite on the fora, (are the fora not public?) or in private - without the most excruciating linguistic and balancing act worthy of a contortionist - the kind that that has everyone in knots, not least the moderators. This is not remotely credible, or consistent.

Let us bring this even closer to home, on the fora:

So, when an alienated and frustrated teenager - and on this forum - tech dedicated as it is - inevitably, there have been many of them, - starts a thread looking for sympathy, guidance and advice on why he can't talk to women, and how he might persuade her to look upon him more favourably, and then discusses how the 'bitch' won't reply to his endless tweets and texts - how can the forum credibly explain to him that actually, it is perfectly okay to call a woman who seeks election a "criminal bitch" but that a woman who rejects your awkward advances is a human being who might not welcome being called a "criminal bitch" when she turns you down?

As a woman, I have to say that I am appalled that MR chose not to contest, or dispute this term ('bitch') when used - openly, - and that as it was not contested, it was apparently condoned - (yes, I repeat that I know full well that mod activity is voluntary) about a woman who was contesting election in the public space.

By not calling it out, yes, you enabled it, allowed it, and condoned it.

And, in briefings which I have given, I have cited MR - a forum I like - as a regrettable example for the deplorable standard that public debate and discourse was allowed to plumb this year during the election campaign in the US.

Now, I write this as the sort of "snowflake" who has worked on elections across the globe for twenty years, including running them, monitoring them, observing them, and analysing them, and reporting on them, to governments, and supranational bodies (the EU and UN are supranational bodies, and I have reported to both), in some of the most contested political spaces on the planet, so, yes, I do know about heightened emotions and fraught outcomes, and frightful consequences when things go wrong.

However, I think that your interpretation of what ought to be allowed to be said under the umbrella of the First Amendment too generous by far, and grossly and egregiously unfair, because insults and offensive comments are in themselves disproportionate; precisely because Secretary Clinton is a woman, most of the more vicious insults directed at her focussed on her gender, not her achievements, accomplishments, experience, political stances, positions, platforms, policies - and some of the latter did indeed beg questions. Serious questions.

Above all, since this discussion has been invited, I want to know if - on these fora - it is still considered acceptable to call a woman seeking public office a "bitch", and if so, why. And then, what argument can you credibly make to the misogynists on your threads to persuade them that this term should not be used when describing women in other contests and still claim consistency in moderation.




Yes, it is.

I have attempted to explain why this is so above.

I respectfully disagree.

I think people called Clinton names because they intensely disliked her on a personal level and because of what she stood for, not because she was a woman. Trump was also called many names by those who disliked him. Some insults can be gender-specific, but that does not make gender the cause of the attack. In my experience, people use insults that are strong, effective and likely to draw a reaction from others, regardless of the accuracy of them.

In an ideal world, we would all love our neighbour, and we should all strive to do so, but emotions sometimes get the better of us. The best thing I feel I can do to lift the tone of the forums is to lead by example and not descend into insults wherever possible.
 
Not sure if this is off-topic, because the discussion has meandered from the OP. My apologies to the OP if it's considered so and please PM me if you'd like me to remove it.

PRSI is a valuable sub-forum which is completely voluntary in nature, both to view and in which to participate. Also, the Forum software allows one to ignore specific users or to ignore PRSI itself from a user's personal feed of New Posts, Trending Threads, New Threads or Watched Threads, for example. It can be avoided.

I'm not suggesting that feedback to management is never warranted regarding PRSI. I am suggesting that regular participants should cautiously consider its standard -- the free exchange (within rules) of ideas among individuals with diverse points-of-view. It's important to be personally true to that standard, and, to be objective about your own motivations before reporting your complaint(s). Management could throw up their hands tomorrow and close PRSI because they've been overwhelmed by the amount of time it takes to manage it. What a loss that would be for thinkers and the Forum as a whole. Posters would be wise to police themselves so they're able to continue to enjoy the benefits of PRSI, and also so as to show the mod/admins the respect that they deserve for the time they devote, trying to the best of their ability and resources, to run a desirable Forum. If you're getting too riled up to post a cogent response, take a break till you're able to. Although you may be missed, rest assured, you're likely not PRSI's oracle.

There's many terms used at PRSI, and elsewhere, that I've found to be distasteful, some even more so than *bitch*. They're used as shortcuts or cudgels that are loaded with the premises of the poster as the unassailable Given, never to be challenged, only to be bowed to. Nobody ever said this discussion stuff would be easy (haha) either for the general membership or management.

If it's determined that the term *bitch*, which has many meanings, can be used as a descriptor for public figures in the future at PRSI, I suggest the following to those who recoil from its use -- fight your corner. Others have :

 
...but rather I am talking about the decisions that must have been made as a result of a post being reported. When a post is reported, a decision is made, and the result of that decision dictates what is and isn't allowed on MR. It is hardly perfect, and it will never please everyone.

Keep in mind that we are more than willing to revisit moderation. If a user who reports a post feels that we didn't evaluate the report correctly, we're always open to taking another look. Users questioning moderation is one way moderation continues to evolve. And in some cases we simply made a bad call or misunderstood something!

Other than that, you're right: if we reject a post report, it's usually safe - barring mistakes being made - that the comment was allowed. If we are asked to review moderation and we decide the moderation was appropriate, then it's apparent that whatever is at issue is allowed, at least in the context in which it was reported. The next step would either be to move on or to ask that we consider a change in the relevant rule. Either is fine, it depends how strongly a user feels and/or whether or not our explanation was satisfactory.

To be honest, I'm only really talking about PRSI. There are some fairly rotten behavior patterns trawling through that sub-forum that certainly raise my eyebrows.

I couldn't agree more. Discussing PRSI problems as if they're general forum problems can be misleading. That doesn't of course lessen the severity of the problems or mean they don't need to be dealt with, it just puts them in a perspective.

In the end, I don't even know if there is anything to reasonably do from MR's perspective, but I think it is worth noting and thinking about.

In many cases I think there is at least something that can be done, and I agree (as I've stated) that it's absolutely worth discussing.

@Scepticalscribe, We can discuss and/or reverse moderation at any time. One of my points was simply that expressing outrage at perceived permissiveness or a perceived enabling behavior is much less effective than a post report (or contacting us to ask us to reconsider moderation of a post you reported). So don't hesitate to submit a report when you feel a rule is being broken, or if you feel a post illustrates a general problem.

Also, a post reporter's political leaning makes no difference to how a post report is handled. Either there's a violation, or there isn't. Even if you weren't a neutral actor, your report would not have been dismissed on that basis. We just aren't interested in the political opinions of the user behind a post report.

Above all, since this discussion has been invited, I want to know if - on these fora - it is still considered acceptable to call a woman seeking public office a "bitch", and if so, why.

It's almost impossible to answer your question, because most problematic posts are problematic in a context. I can say that whether or not a public figure is running for office is not a determining factor.

I'm not sure that the use of "bitch" in a forum post is always misogynist. "She's a bitch" or "what a bitch" often means something like "She's a nasty person" or "she was really rude just now". "Those feminist bitches are all the same" raises red flags immediately; I get a strong misogynist vibe, and we're dangerously close to a slur, depending on context. At this point, it doesn't matter that a public figure was the focus.

I respectfully disagree.

I think people called Clinton names because they intensely disliked her on a personal level and because of what she stood for, not because she was a woman. Trump was also called many names by those who disliked him. Some insults can be gender-specific, but that does not make gender the cause of the attack. In my experience, people use insults that are strong, effective and likely to draw a reaction from others, regardless of the accuracy of them.

I suspect this is often (if certainly not always) the case, and not just in regard to Clinton.

In an ideal world, we would all love our neighbour, and we should all strive to do so, but emotions sometimes get the better of us. The best thing I feel I can do to lift the tone of the forums is to lead by example and not descend into insults wherever possible.

Leading by example is an excellent goal. In an online community as in life in general, we influence those around us by our own behavior.

To sum up, this is our stance:


Forum users can express negative personal comments about public figures, but it's not permitted to express negative personal comments about forum users. Slurs (= negative generalizations about groups), racist comments, hate speech, misogyny are never allowed. This includes posts where public figures are the focus.

We understand that not everyone will like the fact that we allow negative personal comments about public figures, even within the limits stated above, but we've chosen not to moderate these comments.

Users are encouraged to report violations. If no action is taken and the post reporter feels a mistake has been made, we hope that user will contact us so we can review our moderation and either explain or adjust what we've done. In some cases, this will also spark a discussion about the rules, which is never a waste of time.
 
....misogyny [is] never allowed.

Well, I believe---and she'll surely speak for herself, but I'll offer my perspective---@Scepticalscribe's point was that, while "criminal" may be a criticism of public behavior, "bitch" is only a slur in the context she references. Certainly "bitch" doesn't always have this context, but to normalize "bitch" as an expression of dislike for a woman is, in my opinion, to normalize misogyny.
 
...To sum up, this is our stance:

Forum users can express negative personal comments about public figures, but it's not permitted to express negative personal comments about forum users. Slurs (= negative generalizations about groups)...
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Can the term "groups" be interpreted to include owners of particular Apple products - or is it limited to federally-protected classes such as: Race, Color, Religion, Sex, etc.?

I ask, because I'm seeing an increasing number of posts containing a negative and provocative statement like; "Anyone who owns an Apple watch is a fool" - and (most importantly) nothing else of value.

As a product-owner I ignore these posts. But it is getting tiring and, more to the point, letting them remain sets a bad example to impressionable new members who may go on to emulate the behavior. (IMHO, of course.)

If nothing else, it lowers the tone of what has been a excellent and immensely useful forum for as far back as I can remember.
 
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@Arran I see the distinction you're asking about. It may be a stretch to call what you're describing a slur, at least in the way it's often defined and used, but it certainly is a negative generalization about a group of people, and would in many contexts be trolling. So if you see it, report it and we'll take a look.
 
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@Arran I see the distinction you're asking about. It may be a stretch to call what you're describing a slur, at least in the way it's often defined and used, but it certainly is a negative generalization about a group of people, and would in many contexts be trolling. So if you see it, report it and we'll take a look.
Thanks,

I already reported it and was just following-up here as a sort-of sanity check for myself! :)
 
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I agree with the OPs concern. In my opinion, nothing discussed on MacRumors benefits from the vulgar expressions OP cited. While such expressions do seem much more prevalent than they would have five or ten years ago (not just here but on the internet generally), forums that want to promote quality discourse don't need that language and would do better without it.
 
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I disagree with vulgarity bans. Long as you aren't insulting someone/their culture/their ethnicity/&c, aren't obscene (using the examples OP), why does it matter is someone swears? Saying I messed up/effed up/and ****** up are really no different, and obviously not hard to get through filters. And if seeing that word really makes your blood boil, then the internet isn't meant for you because the real world doesn't work that way.
 
I disagree with vulgarity bans. Long as you aren't insulting someone/their culture/their ethnicity/&c, aren't obscene (using the examples OP), why does it matter is someone swears? Saying I messed up/effed up/and ****** up are really no different, and obviously not hard to get through filters. And if seeing that word really makes your blood boil, then the internet isn't meant for you because the real world doesn't work that way.
Depends on the site/service/product and the rules that go along with it. There might be considerations in play in relation to perhaps minors participating. And just a general environment. Sure, saying this or that is similar, but just like in real life there are plenty of situations, places, circumstances where vulgar language isn't appropriate, things can certainly similarly apply to places like this.
 
MacRumors,

I greatly enjoy this entire site and I consider it a privilege to be able to discuss Apple related topics in the discussion forum. However, I have a growing concern regarding excessive and vulgar language.

Today I reported a thread in the MacBook Pro forum that talked about getting "****ed in the ass" and another thread in which someone talked about Apple "fisting people in the ass". I received an automated reply back form a moderator stating that no action was taken and the profanity filter is working as designed.

Is this kind of vulgarity now allowed on MacRumors? The forums are already a struggle with the negativity and trolling that is allowed, but I fear this new level of vulgarity will take the forums right down the toilet. I hope this was a mistake by the hard-working moderation team and MacRumors is not allowing this kind of language to be tolerated in the forums.

Bryan

The moderation here in MR is... very random and when you complain about a moderator they all are friends and protect themselves so... it is what it is.
 
You bring up a very good point. Technically the profanity filter DID do its job. However, we constantly balance the letter and spirit of the rules. It's impossible to regulate all possible combinations of words, which is why we have the more general Rules for Appropriate Debate. These are meant to describe the tone and level we expect in forum discussions. Civil debate in my opinion doesn't need - and is in fact strengthened by - a lack of profanity and vulgarity. What constitutes vulgarity varies of course from person to person, but that's why the site has moderators and administrators: to decide where the lines are drawn here.

It's of course harder to have a good barometer of stated rules and expectations on a site with over 1 000 000 members from all over the world than it would be on a small site of like-minded members. The length and complexity of our rules illustrate that. This is however a site where we are fairly strict about civil debate, and where we have users as young as 13 years of age.

To sum up: we take this very seriously and are discussing it now. I'll say it once more because it bears repeating: civil debate doesn't need - and is in fact strengthened by - a lack of profanity and vulgarity.

If you have users as young as 13 years old these sort of profanities should not be allowed to be read in any country of the world.
Especially with Arnie being a qualified Doctor.
 
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The moderation here in MR is... very random and when you complain about a moderator they all are friends and protect themselves so... it is what it is.

No.

Moderation is done whenever a violation is seen by or brought to the attention of the moderators. It's done on the basis of the rules, and there are checks in place to help us when we make mistakes. For example, we ask users to contact us if they feel we've made a mistake in moderation so we can review what we've done and see if it needs to be changed.

The moderators and administrators don't know each other personally - we're spread all over the globe. Luckily we do get along well despite varying ages, religions, and political leanings.

In addition, everything moderators do is transparent to all of us. No moderator can go rogue and adjust things to his personal agenda. There are plenty of cases where we've overturned each other's moderation.
 
No truer words spoken.

I'll direct you to the post I made just a few minutes ago - it applies here as well, and you maybe didn't see it since your post was made only four minutes later.

It's up to users in part to help us keep moderation as fair as possible by reporting posts and using the Contact Us form to let us know when they feel moderation needs to be adjusted. There's no way we can see everything.

I disagree with vulgarity bans. Long as you aren't insulting someone/their culture/their ethnicity/&c, aren't obscene (using the examples OP), why does it matter is someone swears? Saying I messed up/effed up/and ****** up are really no different, and obviously not hard to get through filters. And if seeing that word really makes your blood boil, then the internet isn't meant for you because the real world doesn't work that way.

For vulgarity to be moderated it has to be something that's not acceptable in most contexts in life. It's harder to be specific here because vulgar is in the eye of the beholder, whereas profanity is pretty much defined. We do however have a rule about profanity that's part of what users accept when they register. It's in place because of the younger users.

If you have users as young as 13 years old these sort of profanities should not be allowed to be read in any country of the world.
Especially with Arnie being a qualified Doctor.

Not sure what being a doctor has to do with this.
 
All rather interesting. I say this as someone who has been "corrected" by MR's big brother. Sometimes I agree with their stance though disagree that the comment was worthy of "correction" and other times, I think they really miss the mark entirely. In short, even with rules in place, diversity in the use of language is always going to get people upset and some will be offended and some will not be and then some of us really don't care all that much in general.
 
... No moderator can go rogue and adjust things to his personal agenda. There are plenty of cases where we've overturned each other's moderation.
I can attest to this. In one case a few years back, one member made a nuanced, quite clever and entirely appropriate comment that another member didn't understand and consequently reported. It was moderated out as a result.

I (and I think a few others?) objected to the unfairness, explained the appropriateness of the comment and the moderation was reversed. Voila! Can't get fairer than that.
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The problem is not vulgar language, but aggression.
Or just the general touchiness/brittle-ness/prickliness of some folks?

My ignore list has been growing lately as I add them to it.

I believe everyone has a right to speak (free speech and all) but some posters here are just hard work. Nobody has the right, IMHO, to be listened too or taken seriously. We all have to earn that.

I'm here for information and fun - so I have no qualms about ignoring them. I'd ignore them in real life too if they behaved there as they do here.

Life's too short.
 
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All rather interesting. I say this as someone who has been "corrected" by MR's big brother. Sometimes I agree with their stance though disagree that the comment was worthy of "correction" and other times, I think they really miss the mark entirely. In short, even with rules in place, diversity in the use of language is always going to get people upset and some will be offended and some will not be and then some of us really don't care all that much in general.

You've given a really good example of the variation there will be among users on such a large site as far as their individual experiences of the rules and the moderation policies (= how the staff interprets and moderates on the basis of the rules). It's only natural to expect that it will vary which rules individual users think are sensible and which rules are nitpicky and unnecessary. The same goes for how moderation is done - users will agree with some moderation policies and not others.

To best accommodate this and to make it possible for us to get as much constructive feedback as possible, we've got Site and Forum Feedback for general discussions and questions about the rules, the Contact Us form for discussions of specific moderation, post reports to alert us to problems, and the Contact Us form if you've reported a post, nothing was done, and you want an explanation as to why.

Backstage we have a high degree of transparency. All mods and admins can see all moderation that was done and who did it. Except for very routine situations, we discuss post reports before moderation is done at all.

I'll remind you guys that posts in this thread have to be kept general. If you get into specifics the post will be deleted, but that doesn't mean we're not interested in discussing. If you use the Contact Us form we can discuss all the details with you. In these cases as well, all moderators and admins see all contacts, and the answers you get are discussed before they're sent.

Finally, you're absolutely right: some users will be upset by certain language, some will won't, and some just don't care. We try to find a middle ground that's at least an acceptable balance for just about everyone.

We don't want anyone to leave the site due to a disagreement about how things are run, but we also know that sometimes, despite our best efforts, that will be the case.

As to vulgar language, this is something we constantly discuss, so feedback is always welcome.
 
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