This might not be a popular opinion here, but I will gladly pay for an ad-free Facebook that doesn’t attempt to facilitate/sell micro changes in my behaviour to the highest bidder, whilst enabling quality connections.
We’ve got a bit of a paradox as consumers of digital services. We don’t want to pay for them (when we happily pay for other services) and at the same time, we don’t want the fallout of social media companies turning us into the product.
At the end of the day though, when it comes to Facebook, it’s not just about whether one would be willing to pay for it or not, it’s that I do not fundamentally trust the company or its leadership. So even if they said they were willing to offer the service I want for a fee, I won’t trust Zuckerberg to not make underhanded attempts to make more money off us and screw us over to his selfish gain.
Oh, and for what it’s worth, that threat of ‘give us your data or Facebook won’t be free anymore’ is a rotten move.