I hear what you're saying and I understand where you're coming from - but, to further the meme: I don't think it means what you think it means.
It didn't begin or start in 2013. It's been Apple's entire modus operandi since the start of business. That "reality distortion" field? The philosophy of "The consumer doesn't know what they want until we show them what they want." That's all a middle finger to what you, critics, developers, programmers, some industry sector, or consumers at a large want or desire. I mean, Tim Cook is criticized as being terrible and everyone wants to fire him because he's only concerned about profits -- while (posthumously, now) Steve Jobs is venerated as paragon of delivering what people wanted. i.e. Cheesegrater MacPros, upgradeable / repairable iMacs and MacBooks, but that's whitewashing.
Producing all-in-one, or fixed configuration, low spec, or too high spec computers dates back to their origins. Dropping all serial ports except original Gen1.0 USB, dropping the Floppy Drive, the CD-ROM drive, never adopting Blu-Ray, or Adobe Flash and Java in iOS, iOS install signing, refusing to allow iOS downgrades, not allowing self-jailbreaking or side loading of apps, planned obsolescence, sherlocking App Store apps, the whole "You're holding it wrong" meme of ignoring the iPhone 4 problem, being slow to adopt 3G, 4G, LTE, or larger then 3.5" screen sized iPhones: all of this was under Steve Jobs. All of that was not listening to, not understanding, and ignoring "what everyone is telling them". Of course, Steve Jobs also had a hand in iOS 6 Apple Maps (ditching Google) and the lightning connector (sure didn't stop it). I'm sure he green lit the start of the 2013 Mac Pro project as well.
2013 was not the start - Tim Cook succeeding Steve Jobs was not the start - It's been there from the very beginning. Apple as a company is going to consider their reasons and values first over the metaphorical "tribe's" reasons and values. I'm not talking memes (like being greedy) or conspiracy theories (valuing planned obsolescence) here. Apple is going to develop something that it thinks is of value. Whether it's an iPod, iPhone, iPad or Mac Pro 2013. Then they'll come back later and make changes to it if necessary. But, make no mistake what *you* want is always going to be second in mind to how Apple wants to solve problems.
It may or may not. The 2013 Mac Pro sure wasn't the first and won't be the last of Apple's products that don't hit the mark. If the Mac Pro succeeds, it's not going to be because it's the only game in town. PC critics will be more then happy to inform you of less expensive and superior servers and workstations.
And if you pay attention to reviews of Apple's new scissor key replacement for the Butterfly keyboard - it's introduction is only because they've seemingly found a better way to achieve want they wanted to with the Butterfly keyboard. That is, you'd have a 4th gen of Butterfly if it wasn't for this. Which again, Classic Apple - ignoring what *you* want and instead only tweaking what they want based on feedback from clients / customers / consumers.
I'm not saying this isn't abrasive - I'm not saying it doesn't frustrate you - or critics at large. But this is how Apple has always been. Likely is how Apple always will be.