That's an interesting post.
For me it's that I want performance for video editing etc and for a while I was convinced by the whole 'M series laptops docked is basically a desktop' replacement and that's all well and good, when it works, and for me it just didn't work. I also never really got on with OSX as a desktop software.
I''ve said before on this thread, I've had an M1 Pro MacBook Pro and an M2 Max MacBook Pro and Pro Display XDR all break on me. Three screen failures on the laptops and the ProDisplay XDR stopped working with laptops entirely, defeating the purpose of why I bought it in the first place. So whilst everyone raves about M series chips and Apple reliability and quality both of my laptops failed within the first two years of ownership (in fact the M2 Max failed three times - two displays and a battery). Apples customer service has been terrible, so I've sold the Prodisplay XDR and broken M1 and plan to sell the M2 Max and am just hobbling on using it with a broken screen until now.
I paid £3000 for my M2 Max and for a screen failure just outside of warranty they expected £840 even though the laptop doesn't have a single mark on it they claimed it was damaged.
So basically, I don't trust them with high end machines because to me they have been unreliable and I'm not prepared to pay apple repair prices / buy a new one every 2 years.
My plan going forward had been to completely ditch Apple products because I feel completely let down by them after how much I spent. I plan to build a desktop PC so that if I have any issues or need to upgrade I don't have to buy a whole new system. So for the laptop I really don't need much performance since that will be handled by the desktop. I do need a laptop though, so I have been looking at windows alternative and nothing really stood out as any better than a MacBook Air, and even options like the surface laptop 7 are at least as expensive as the M4 MacBook Air and have worse performance/touchpad/speakers etc. If you start looking at more premium laptops, as you say they are often even more expensive than the MacBook Pros and I don't really trust any companies laptops to be reliable for the long term.
So I reckon I'll end up just going custom PC build and a MacBook Air and treating the laptop the way apple intended, as a disposable piece of tech you throw in the bin when it inevitably breaks.
I don’t know what to say about your experience with Apple hardware.
It seems you might be in the UK and I don’t know what consumer laws are in effect and warranty outside USA. I thought Europe had 2 year warranty laws. In the US it is only one.
I think the thing is I don't know how you use your devices or environments. Not saying anything just that it is something I can never know definitively.
Laptops are fragile. I have a Samsung Galaxybook 4 pro x360 and it has a super thin touchscreen, thinner than any Apple laptop. It flexs when moving it. I have read tons of complaints about screen failures. I have to be careful with laptops and I can't tell you how many times I dropped laptops and had some catastrophic damage. It really sucks.
With Apple m series devices everything os on chip, ssd, ram, cpu, GPU. If any one of those components fail you have to replace the entire system. You can't just repair a cpu or ram on the chip. So this gives us customers a completely different risk profile from older gen devices. This means that a long term warranty or indefinite warranty program is a much bigger need than in the past since repairing a m series MacBook is prohibitively expensive. I am not saying I like this but if you do a risk assessment for a number of years it makes sense to pay for the warranty if you plan on keeping your devices long term. A lot of people will bank what they would spend on Apple Care and just put that money away and many times they can save significant amount of money. It is a personal risk assessment.
So I can understand through your experience your hesitation to buy from Apple but I will say to you all electronics these days are a lottery. Windows OEM'S suffer from similar issues and their warranties and repair cost may be very similar or worse than your experience with Apple.
As a consumer I have learned that you have to be proactive and persistent with product issues after sales no matter Google, HP, Asus, Samsung, or Apple. You have to be a pest but polite at the same time and at any opportunity talk to someone above the first person you speak with. Eventually you can get thi gs repaired even in some cases after warranty expires. You have nothing to lose to give things a try.
I have no reason to suggest you buy any product as this is your Dominion and I am just relating my experience over the years.
I really like Asus in terms of value and build quality. Never had an Asus with a hardware failure. Lenovo has been the absolute worst in terms of hardware reliability and HP second but HP repaired outside of warranty. Samsung has a spotty record on hardware repairs and some design issues. That being said Samsung has some of the best 2 in ones you can but if willing to pay. My personal choice would be Asus but Samsung very close second.
I wish you the best of luck and whatever you choose it lasts a long time and is durable.