As a previous owner of 16 M1 Max and I sold my m1 max for an m2 MBA I can say I never looked back.
The 16" is a better laptop in most ways but the air is so good and so light and portable with NO fans. It has been a game changer for me and how I use my laptop in my lap or anywhere I want. The 16" is so well made but so damn heavy. It is not just the weight but the mass of the laptop and how the weight is distributed. It makes the 16" a desktop replacement basically.
I also have two newer Windows laptops. An Hp Spectre and a Samsung Galaxybook 4 pro x360. They both have 120hz OLED touchscreens, fast Intel cpu and 16-32gb ram and I end up using the MBA the most to the point I may sell both of my Windows laptops, sell my air and buy a M4 13.6" MBA or a 14" MBP as I just can't do a 16" again.
I would highly recommend you go into an Apple store or a Best Buy and try using the model you are interested in for a while and see for yourself what you like best. All I can say is the MacBook airs are surprisingly fast despite no fans. You might find the air does everything you need and is so portable you end up using it more and my tablet gets a lot less use.
Good luck whatever you decide and have fun figuring out your next steps!!
Out of being able to choose any one