That's honestly why it annoys me so much when a lot of people just declare the way they like it to be the only way people should have. It's so damn short sighted lol. Neither of our preferences are wrong, but they are right for ourselves.
I'm curious though why 3D Touch was terrible for you? Personally I think the big issue was that people didn't think or know how to use it, but in my opinion it's vastly superior to the long presses we have now. The phone always gets confused whether I'm trying to long press/swipe, or something. With 3D Touch, it provided the phone with another input to help it determine what you are trying to do. If I started pressing, then it reacted both faster, and more correct every time.
Also, why the hate on headphone jacks lol? For me I like it because of the universal/non-proprietary nature of it. Wireless headphones require batteries, which go bad, which makes you have to buy again. It requires you to spend more money in the long run. I still have headphones that are over 20 years old at this point and still work great (if I have a headphone jack to plug them into.) At least for me, it's more about not having things be so disposable. But I do still have and enjoy my AirPods, but they are never going to sound as good as my old wired headphones. The convenience is nice though.
I think of things more in terms of product development and design, because I work in software development and design. So I will often say, "this is the way things should be" because people in those positions have to make those decisions. The fact that there is some user somewhere that disagrees because they either don't understand the difference, or don't care and belligerently want it their way or no way, does not factor in.
3D Touch was worthless. Utterly worthless. Here is why:
- It required special hardware to exist, which not only added cost, but severely limited other important design considerations around the display itself and space. It was not very forward thinking.
- In the 5 years it existed, absolutely no practical application for it materialized. Developers had time to utilize it. Nothing developed.
- No matter what settings you used, it was awkward and difficult to use because of needing to modulate pressure to achieve a certain result.
- It created a fracture in the UI consistency across devices. Long Press was the far superior option from the get-go, that was usable across all models of Apple Watch, iPhone, and iPad.
- Long Press is far more predictable and reliable to accomplish 99% of the same goals. It is a gesture all people can do, consistently, which was a big problem for 3D touch.
It had nothing going for it. Nothing.
As for headphones jacks, well, this just compounds a massive lack of understanding and awareness on your part.
When Apple removed the headphone jack from iPhone, it was certainly early, but ultimately correct.
- Analog audio is rather ancient technology bolted on to state-of-the-art iPhone. It was there for legacy compatibility, and nothing more.
- It presented a major problem in achieving the level of water resistance that is necessary for iPhone, something that far outweighs, by an order of magnitude, legacy audio support.
- AirPods are a runaway success. People love them. Companies love to clone them. No one cares that they have to be charged. An entire ecosystem of nightstand chargers has emerged to make this effortless.
- Wired audio still exists today via lightning and USB-C adapters and headphones. Though it is by far the minority of what gets used in the wild.
- Your AirPods absolutely do sound as good as your old wired headphones. Depending on the model, they can do noise cancellation and even lossless audio. Something analog could never, ever do. This is a simple fact, and not a measure of anyone's opinion of any particular sound from any particular source.
If you find yourself reading this and disregarding all of these points, I can assure you, you are in the wrong. All of the above are simple facts, and it is these simple facts that are used to inform mass market product decisions. It isn't mysterious, or nefarious, or difficult to comprehend.