Dude, you sound a lot like me. I too am a bit disappointed in Apple these days. I guess I liked Apple when it was Apple Computer. Even when they were an electronics company. I find myself increasingly dispirited by Apple the Content King. On the one hand, I just don't like the direction of the company or what it represents anymore - the pushing of proprietary formats, the coming attempts to monetize web content for new "experience" devices like the iPad, and so on - of course, we've discussed this before.
On the other, it also seems Apple's computers are just an afterthought now. There was a time Intel was releasing new chips to Apple BEFORE everyone else. Now we've returned to the bad old days of Apple peddling computers stuffed with borderline ancient tech for grossly inflated prices. I have a MacBook Pro from Feb. 2007 - then Penryn model - and the new ones, nearly two years later, literally offer NOTHING other than a nicer enclosure. Core 2 Duo is old now. Nvidia 9600M (basically a rebranded 8600M) is beyond ancient. The desktop line continues to offer nothing for people who, you know, want DESKTOP components for under $3000. I could go on.
Bottom line, I like OS X, but I'm pretty platform neutral. I buy whatever is the best hardware at the time. When I bought my MBP, it was simply a stunning machine. C2D, solid GPU, all in a thin, elegant case. Even at the high price point, nothing could touch it's performance in this form factor. This MBP replaced not one, not two, but THREE computers - my old PB G4, my old PM G5, and my old PC tower. Now, things have changed. Sony is about to release a new Z with i5 and i7 arrandales and a Nvidia GT310M all in a 13" 3.5lb package. For gaming, the lowly M11X, which starts at $799, whips the 17" MacBook Pro and says "call me daddy." I could go on but you know all of this.
Apple's attention is clearly not on computers anymore. It's on things like cell phones and content delivery systems. If I were a shareholder, maybe I'd be happy about that, as they are clearly making a killing in that business. As a computer enthusiast, I can't help but consider moving on. I am thinking of going back to two computers - a sweet Windows tower and some crazy thin and light notebook for travel, perhaps the Vostro V13.