Yup. Move on.
I was in a similar place a few years ago. I still have a soft spot for my previous SO as we went through so much together (Death of her grandfather, I had back surgery, and so on). But I haven't talked to her in a couple of years and even when she was back in town, she didn't even try to look me up.
One other thing. A friend of mine told me that the best wedding gift he got his wife was meeting and getting married at 35 instead of 25. They both had a lot more maturity and strength that has helped them grow stronger as a couple. I couldn't agree more. I am 32 and getting married in September to a wonderful lady I could not have seen myself dating just a few years ago.
Yes, it hurts. Investing emotionally in another person is the most risky and potentially the most rewarding thing you can do. Relax and enjoy life. It is not going end because you are single.
I was in a similar place a few years ago. I still have a soft spot for my previous SO as we went through so much together (Death of her grandfather, I had back surgery, and so on). But I haven't talked to her in a couple of years and even when she was back in town, she didn't even try to look me up.
One other thing. A friend of mine told me that the best wedding gift he got his wife was meeting and getting married at 35 instead of 25. They both had a lot more maturity and strength that has helped them grow stronger as a couple. I couldn't agree more. I am 32 and getting married in September to a wonderful lady I could not have seen myself dating just a few years ago.
Yes, it hurts. Investing emotionally in another person is the most risky and potentially the most rewarding thing you can do. Relax and enjoy life. It is not going end because you are single.