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Patmian212 said:
Aight man that sonds sweet, I got the perfect idea too great arcade in town with some bumper cars and crap like that. By the way I appreciate the help guys! Also sorry for sounding frackin pathetic;) got the best of me there for a sec.


this is important -- a lot of guys forget this and it's why they are miserable after.

You are just as important as she is ... NEVER make yourself be less.

if you two are out, and you are having fun, and she's NOT -- then she's the one that sucks, NOT YOU.

do you really want to date someone that can't have fun at bumper cars?
 
revenuee said:
do you really want to date someone that can't have fun at bumper cars?
HAHAHA, dude that and the emotional tampon metaphor have made my day:D
 
Patmian212 said:
HAHAHA, dude that and the emotional tampon metaphot have made my day:D


it's not selfish to want to be with someone that likes the things you do ... will you like EVERYTHING the same ... no ... but if you have to jump through hoops to impress a girl then in my mind there is something wrong ... it needs to go both ways.

it's why girls like jerks and *******s ... they are addicting, they are fun, and they don't take ****.

you don't have to abuse, but take care of yourself ... beleive me, no one else will.

i gotta go to class, i'll check in later ... if you have more questions post here or PM me ...

forget good luck ... just have fun and enjoy
 
Kills me to hear you doggin' yourself. Man, you are the cat's meow. Doesn't matter if you're a model or worse off than the everyday Joe. Also, my $.10, if it's all drama, it's not worth it. The best relations are ones that sort of happen, or start the old fashioned way. If there's all this work up front, guaranteed it'll stay that way and be heartache later. Well, probably not worth $.10, but thought I'd toss in a bit of advice, as well.
 
Well I just "asked her out", She was feelin pretty depressed and Im like thats it you need some fun this friday you are comin with me, its a surprise. She said ok and seemed pretty happy about it, dont know if she considers it a date or not, but Ill whoop out the charm. Thanks for the advice, and once again sorry for another girl thread;) , seems to be many peoples pet peeve.
 
Patmian212 said:
Well I just "asked her out", She was feelin pretty depressed and Im like thats it you need some fun this friday you are comin with me, its a surprise. She said ok and seemed pretty happy about it, dont know if she considers it a date or not, but Ill whoop out the charm. Thanks for the advice, and once again sorry for another girl thread;) , seems to be many peoples pet peeve.

Finally!!

OK, remember:

Hungry - "I'm so hungry I could eat the crotch out of a low flying duck."
Thirsty - "I'm as dry as a dead dingo's donger."
 
Chundles said:
Finally!!

OK, remember:

Hungry - "I'm so hungry I could eat the crotch out of a low flying duck."
Thirsty - "I'm as dry as a dead dingo's donger."
I think i can spin a kinky angle on that low flying duck one;)
 
she has self-esteem and control issues.
i need only hear she had an eating disorder and double-messaged to make sure she had plans for that day.* these are never good signs. does it mean she isn't worthwhile? well no, it doesn't mean that, but i can almost promise things will be complicated with this one.




*she didn't want to be alone. people who can't make good company with themselves are to be concerned about.
 
Patmian212 said:
Hey guys,
First some info about the girl:
She is 16 and from australia.

<chop>

Next morning I call her and she cant do anything cuz in europe its fathers day, oh well, no biggy.

I sure hope you dont think Australia is in or near Europe, dont make me come over there and belt you one. :rolleyes:
 
Cybix said:
I sure hope you dont think Australia is in or near Europe, dont make me come over there and belt you one. :rolleyes:
Hahahaha nah, she is australian but she lives over here in madrid, spain.
 
vniow said:
Unless you happen to actually be the girl.


hey sweetheart --- i was waiting till you were going to chime in ;)
i've missed you, how have you been?



Patmian212

don't worry if it's a date or not ... JUST HAVE FUN that's all you can really do

ps. i like that you said it's a surprise ... YOU ARE THE MAN ;)
 
revenuee said:
ps. i like that you said it's a surprise ... YOU ARE THE MAN ;)

Hahaha thats only cuz I dunno where Im gonna take her yet, the bumper cars are cool but kinda seedy, so Im trying to find a nearby "put-put" or somehing else thats fun.
 
Heres a little update for you guys,
Took her for some bumper caring and some arcade games, it was a blast! Had a great time, its definitley a first that I can talk and chill with a girl freely with no worries about how Im acting. After that we went to a park for a walk(around 11pm) and randomly saw her ex boyrfriend(my best friend), chilled there for a bit then went off alone to chill on some grasss and relax. Had a great time, nothing much happened but it was only the 1 "date". The when I got home she sends me an SMS(sounds like we communicate only over text messages but it really isnt like that).
It said Patmian212, thanks a lot for tonight, Had an amazing time. You are such a beautiful person inside and out(not part of the message- this part kinda makes me think of the "friend zone") I felt really happy for the first time in a while, thank you. Youd dont know how much it means to me to have a friend like you(not part of the message- "friend zone" once more?). Any girl is lucky to be with you. Call me 2moro and we can chill. Love you.
So tomorrow we are goin out again I guess, ill see how it unfolds.

EDIT: By the way that other guy who only wants pus sy, called like 3 times during the "date"
 
Patmian212 said:
Heres a little update for you guys,
Took her for some bumper caring and some arcade games, it was a blast! Had a great time, its definitley a first that I can talk and chill with a girl freely with no worries about how Im acting. After that we went to a park for a walk(around 11pm) and randomly saw her ex boyrfriend(my best friend), chilled there for a bit then went off alone to chill on some grasss and relax. Had a great time, nothing much happened but it was only the 1 "date". The when I got home she sends me an SMS(sounds like we communicate only over text messages but it really isnt like that).
It said Patmian212, thanks a lot for tonight, Had an amazing time. You are such a beautiful person inside and out(not part of the message- this part kinda makes me think of the "friend zone") I felt really happy for the first time in a while, thank you. Youd dont know how much it means to me to have a friend like you(not part of the message- "friend zone" once more?). Any girl is lucky to be with you. Call me 2moro and we can chill. Love you.
So tomorrow we are goin out again I guess, ill see how it unfolds.

EDIT: By the way that other guy who only wants pus sy, called like 3 times during the "date"

ya, i'm gonna go with the friend zone --

i told you, but the end of the night you'll know EXACTLY where you stand with her.

but if you had a good time, then you had a good time -- if she's fun then nothing wrong with keeping her around as a friend.

next time she tells you you're awesome, or that she loves you --- just say "i know"

and just start dating other girls.

the remedy of getting over one is to get under another ...

have fun
 
vniow said:
Unless you happen to actually be the girl.

Lau said:
Hear, hear...


C'mon ladies, you know what he said was true. ;) Explain otherwise if you don't agree.


MarkCollette said:
Plus, I doubt that discussing problems is an indicator of romantic interest.

Discussing problems is one thing, but I find that if she doesn't know you very well and she talks about old relationships and ex-boyfriends for a short time, like if she just brings it up and you talk about it for a few minutes, that's actually a good sign.
 
ITASOR said:
Yo, you should write her a rap and lay it out, homie.
Hahaha dont know if the sarcasm was intended up in there, but Ive actually started. Ill post it later and get some feedback and you peeps like it ill show it to her, anyways we goin out tonight, gonna have to bring out the mack daddy moves, maybe where my pin stripe suit or something.;)
 
Patmian212 said:
Hahaha dont know if the sarcasm was intended up in there, but Ive actually started.


Really?


that just screams needy -- it's why you're in the friend zone

needy guys bore girls.
 
revenuee said:
Really?


that just screams needy -- it's why you're in the friend zone

needy guys bore girls.
Hahahaha, to clarify, not SPECIFICLY about her(come on guys, clueless is one thing but pathetic is another), its actually pretty cool cuz I can adapted it to any girl, so its just there if I need it:D
 
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