God Help us Another Girl Thread *ducks*

[MarkCollette]

Discussing problems is one thing, but I find that if she doesn't know you very well and she talks about old relationships and ex-boyfriends for a short time, like if she just brings it up and you talk about it for a few minutes, that's actually a good sign.

I agree, but only in the context that it is 100% definite already that you're a romantic couple, and not before. Like pillow talk where you fill in some back story.

Examples:

GOOD: I really like how, when we make love, you taser me and cry for help, because my ex-gf was such a dead lay, and this really lightens things up, and makes me feel appreciated. Keep it up and I'll let you out of the basement more often.

BAD: Wow, this initial coffee date has been so wonderful, it reminds me of warm summer afternoons with my ex-gf. Oh? I already told you about that? Twice? Sorry, your eyes remind me of her.

 

[vniow]

GOOD: I really like how, when we make love, you taser me and cry for help, because my ex-gf was such a dead lay, and this really lightens things up, and makes me feel appreciated. Keep it up and I'll let you out of the basement more often.

I like you.