Why is always the same answer from so many - “if you don’t like don’t use it”?
I do little with iMessage, not because it is good, rather on a global scale it is not used. Reaching out to my contacts, work and personal, I have less issues with Android Message than I do with iOS iMessage, especially on the MMS side. But because Apple won’t allow the evolution of SMS/MMS, I do most of my stuff on Teams, Telegram, Signal, etc…
Would be nice to see the next gen SMS/MMS come about and be usable by all platforms.