Oh please! If you think NOT giving the consumers what it wants in technology is a bad business model, don't ever go into business.
Look what happened to RIM when they didn't "Wake up". They went down.
Google and all of the other handset manufacturers recognized a winning formula and offered competitive products. Not every phone maker copies slavishly everything Apple does.
Apple offered a great product that people wanted. It made sense for other companies to follow suit. If you compare it to designing clunky model T forms for cars instead of the sleek Maserati that the people want just to appear different, you are just begging to go into the hole.
There HAS to be a first when it comes to innovative products, ie flatscreen TVs etc. Trying to change the shape of it just so it doesn't seem like you are copying is stupid. Some items require a certain form function to be practical.
So yes, Apple led the way and Google and the rest followed. There always has to be a first but assuming that others won't follow an excellent idea and try to improve on it is just plain naive and stupid.
In the long run we as consumers benefit from ground breakers and those who attempt to improve on what the ground breakers offer.