yet it doesn't mean that one can't be better than the other. I'm a long time -both- ios and android user and when it's about privacy, the sense of user friendliness and thinking about ecosystem as a whole thing; iOS is by far better than android. I'm going to sell my android phone in a couple of days because I'm enough of it.
Android is always "apple did this let's catch them and by the way let's trick people with some specs and numbers". two words: user experience. for example my phone is 120hz amoled and effects and even scrolling experience is never as good as iphone xs. first thing that I've noticed when I switched to android was it touch-responsiveness. you get used to it after some time but then use an iphone for a couple of hours and that feeling is there. really enough of it.